I am 14 and pregnant but my mom don't know how can I tell her.?

Answer 1

please , please tell her soon! she needs to know what you are going threw.. mentally and physically! even if shes hurt or angry or both.... she will get over her feelings and be concerned about yours after a little time. it is going to be ok,,,i know it dont feel like it will,, but belive me..... ( im 33) and it will.....you will get threw this . please talk to her ..... you need her right now. be brave .

Answer 2

OMG sweetie,
I don't know if you plan to keep this child but I was once in your very position.
I can still remember the shock and pain that I saw in my mothers face but after it's all said and done your mother will most likely react much like mine did, with sound advice and solutions.
I was one of the few that chose to keep my child and I have to tell you it was a very difficult road to travel . I couldn't have done it without the help of not only my family but her fathers as well. In the end everything turned out OK I went on to graduate with a nursing degree and was able to support us quite well. She then grew up to graduate from law school, get married, and have two beautiful boys my grandchildren. I look back now and then and thank God I didn't choose abortion even though it would have been the easiest way out. Sometimes the road less traveled is the right choice. Anyway I guess I did get a little sidetracked so in answer to your question just sit down and tell her you Will be so relieved once it's on the table.
God Bless and good luck

Answer 3

Just tell her. Moms always tell you not to have sex before marriage but they also forgive when you get into trouble. You may hurt her but she will only want to help you so this is the one person in the world who will truly give you the advice and understanding and love that you need.

Not to judge you but I have to ask the question. Why did you get pregnant? If you are old enough to have sex, you should have been old enough to know the consequences and take the necessary safety precautions. Pregnancy is one thing, there are a lot of other diseases out there that you could have gotten so in the future, if you truly need to have sex, take precautions but you shouldn't be having sex until you are old enough to deal with the consequences. Please learn from this experience.

Answer 4

Just tell your mom that you were raped a while ago, and you are ashamed and you can tell that your body is not right and you missed your period, and that you think you are preggo...I mean if my 14 year old told me she was pregnant, I would hurt her seriously....word to the wise DO NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO TELL YOUR PARENTS THE CONSEQUENCES. You are not grown, therefore you should not do GROWN up stuff. YOU are not OLD enought to take care of this child...heck you are barely in high school, and here you go getting knocked up like a fool....it aint easy raising a kid, and if I was your mother, I would let you have it and then permantely attach it to your hip, so you can see how PHUCKING foolish you are to be out there having UNPROTECTED SEX, especially with the AIDS epidemic alive and well in stupid little kids your age....who thinks just because he is cute or she is cute they are disease free...FAT CHANCE--go get checked

Answer 5

Don't keep putting it off next time you are by her and you start thinking about telling her Just Do It! There is no easy way to tell you mother you are pregnant when you are 14.

Answer 6

How did you find out you were pregnant? Is it a for sure thing? How far along are you? How close are you to your mother? You do need to tell her but you need to make sure you are ready for anything that may come. Do not hide it from her, she may freak out, I would freak out if my 14 yr old daughter told me that she was pregant but you need to stay calm and not get angry at her if she does not react the way you would like her to at first. Do not start an argument talk to her like a young lady. I am sure it was a mistake but you made the choice to have sex so you have step up and act like a woman and a mother.

Answer 7

You are going to have to just tell her. She may be mad and yell and scream, but you are going to have to let her. Remember while she's doing all this, that she is terrified for you. I'm not saying that she is not angry, but she is going to be more scared and disappointed than mad. It does not mean that she doesn't love you, she doesn't know what to do.

Make sure that the two of you are in a quiet place and you are alone. I know that you are scared, but you are going to need her help. Don't keep this from her.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

You need to be honest with her, so just tell her. Don't be upset if her reaction isn't the one you were hoping for. She'll deal with the news in her own way. It may take her some time, but just remember that she is your mother and no matter what, she'll always love you. Good luck!

Answer 9

well i'm sry to hear that but the best thing to do is tell your mom just have an adult talk w/ her catch her at the right time moms r the best they might freak out but i'm telling you it's the best thing when the baby comes around it's just a shocker at first just ahng in there and make some adult situatuion

Answer 10

Listen your human everyone makes mistakes. Tell her when you feel the time is right, don't think it thru too much you'll drive yourself crazy just let it come out, MAKE SURE you tell her though. It's probably going to be tough but you can do it !!! think positive

Answer 11

Just talk to her sit here down and tell her thats shes going to be a grandma