2006-07-26 08:28:31 · 21 answers · asked by POOKIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XXXXXXXXXX the perfect partner to have a relationship with is one who you can be friends with first. You aren't pretentious with eachother, you both know practically all of eachothers likes and dislikes, peeves and habits. So I say go for it hun. The person you may have been looking for all your light may be right under your nose. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx
2006-07-26 09:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this is a hard question because having a relationship may complicate ur friendship and then if u break up u would make things akward between u two. I have been in this sitch b4 and it isn't an easy decision. first think about how much u like or love him and if he feels the same. then promise ur friend that u will both try to make ur friendship work should things flop (I hope not). But go for it. WHo knows whatll happen. if things flop u have ur friendship and if things dont u find a soulmate. Good luck and i hope whatever u do brings the u the best.
2006-07-26 08:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by loveangel*mwah* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's interested in u, then great!, but there is 1 thing u need 2 know b4 u make a move. will this ruin ur friendship? because if u have been friends all ur life, y would u wanna throw that all away 4 sum luv that might not even b there. if he says that u will always b friends no matter wut, then go 4 it. if he gets upset, or doesnt say anything, doesnt make u a promise, then dont. u dont wanna lose sum1 like that. tell him that hes a wonderful person, but u dont wanna lose him. i lost my best friend in a situation like this 1. dont let that happen 2 u. learn from my mistakes. hope this helps chica! good luck!
2006-07-26 08:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes. i hear this all the time not to mention been involved in it.if 2 people click and have fun and just enjoy eachothers company why cant they be more. why do girls think that it will all change if u are a couple.if anything it will cuz u get to love that person.i tried to convince this one girl and she like no were friends it will all change. i gave up and just looked for another but i know that deep inside she as the one that would have made me happy.she denied herself to me and that sux cuz we liked each ither alot.so im sure im like this guy scared to ask u out. so why dont u tell him please.why cant u try and c what could be.if u like him tell him how u feel.so yes date each other dont regret something later
2006-07-26 08:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. Is there more attraction to one another? Is this someone that you just can't live without? Remember that if it doesn't work, your whole relationship will have changed and you may never recover the type of friendship you had prior to dating. Good luck!
2006-07-26 09:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to be mean but I would not because you probley will not have a relation ship for long thats just how friends are! And You wouldn't have a friend after the relationship the main thing is just follow your heart!
2006-07-26 08:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew him well, And you want too, Why not? There's nothing to do with being friends on your whole life, As a matter of fact, It's better;)
2006-07-26 08:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by sophia_rey66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've always wanted to, sure! why not? since you guys have such a long history as friends, you can always go back to being friends. it won't be too hard. and if you guys are actually like soul mates, that would be cool to find out. try the romantic relationship for awhile keeping in mind that it could actually not work out and you'd have to go back to being just friends.
2006-07-26 08:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed with extreme caution. If your heart is leading you towards him then be with him. But not without sitting down and talking about it first. Your heart may be devastatingly pierced if you were to loose your man as well as your friend in the end. Believe me, I know from experience...
2006-07-26 08:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by K Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't go there. It'll feel like your dating your sister/brother.
Yes, i know it's easy to say 'oh ya sure if you like him do it' but seriously which would you prefer a gauranteed life-long friendship or a risky wierd relationship?
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-26 08:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tod P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋