I saw my friend's bf cheating & he saw me. However, I did not tell her. Someone else did, when she confronted him, he assumed it was me & blurted out that I should mind my own business. Now she's mad at me because I saw & didn't say. Is she being fair? I didn't say anything because I knew that it would make no difference in their relationship. We've been down that road before.
2006-07-26 08:26:22 · 11 answers · asked by somebrowning 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should have told her.
2006-07-26 08:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indeed she is being fair. She was expecting you to be honest about what that scumbag was doing behind her back. Think about it, if you were a girl and you had a boyfriend who cheated on you, wouldn't you expect your friend to tell you so you wouldn't have to learn the hard way? Well, there's still something that you can do, you can apologize to her and explain why you didn't tell. Try to make it up best you can, and good luck going about that.
2006-07-26 09:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, I would stay out of other peoples business. NO, she's not being fair, because it was none of your business. Let her cool off for awhile then try to explain that you didn't want to be in the middle of their situation.
2006-07-26 08:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she knows that he is cheating, has it made a difference? Are they still dating? If they are, then no she's not being fair. If they are broken up, then maybe you did underestimate the situation and should have said something.
2006-07-26 08:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still you should have told. and if she is still mad tell her u didn't say anything because u knew that it would make no difference in their relationship. and that u've been down that road before.
2006-07-26 08:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told. By not telling her it seems like you were trying to help out her boyfriend. You're HER friend not his!
2006-07-26 08:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately tell my friend. It doesn't matter if her bf hates you. But if he found out you knew, then that would be much worse.
2006-07-26 09:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by miss_mini_maddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth that you felt if you told her it wouldn't make a difference. It's not your fault she tolerates his behavior.
2006-07-26 08:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of told her but i would just explain to her that you didnt know how to tell her and that you didnt wann hurt her
2006-07-26 08:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not tell. You did the right thing. He didn't.
2006-07-26 08:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend might LOVE this guy and maybe you should just sit her down and talk to her.(ALONE)(DON'T LET HER B/F MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP UP.GOOD LUCK)
2006-07-26 08:34:19 · answer #11 · answered by POOKIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋