I often find myself very very horny when my husband gets home from work and that makes me mad cause he dosen't wanna make loveto me!! what should i do?
2006-07-26 08:22:17 · 29 answers · asked by wendy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if i were you i'd buy a vibrater and make it my best friend don't feel bad im horny 24-7 everybodys hormones are different.
2006-07-26 08:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by baby g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably tired when he gets home it dose not mean he dose not want to have sex with you. Try having sex before he goes to work. Try giving him BJ when he gets home to help him relax and come the weekend he will remember how nice you have been and he will probably do you up right. Working can take a lot out of a person don't beat your self up about this. If you not getting off is a problem then try masturbation manually or with the help of toys.
2006-07-26 15:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very common for most so called experts or even researchers to either say "men have more sex drive" or "women have more sex drive". Ultimately, these generalizations don't help anyone.
Individual people are just very different, this isn't about men or women specifically. Maybe your man is not in the mood after work or he just happens to have a lower sex drive than you.
That's OK, must couples don't match up exactly - that's what masturbation is for! :-)
2006-07-26 16:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by anzw3rz0r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true...but try to spice it up more. Give him some time to wind down from his day at work, let him take a shower, have a dinner ready, candles lit, bottle of wine, lights down low, some music playing, give him a massage and more wine and see what type of mood that puts him in.
2006-07-26 15:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..I've had many sad and mad moments, too. Run him a hot candle lit bath and feed him. Then walk around the house naked in heels. If nothing else works just take what is yours. I'm sick of this $#!+...nonsense!
2006-07-26 15:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a LOT of factors that go into an individual's sex drive. And different people are rarely at a sexually ready state at the same time. He needs to be aware of and attentive to your sexual needs, but the same goes for you. COMMUNICATE!
2006-07-26 15:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have higher sex drives then their partner. Tell him you will do all the work and just lie back and relax. I'm sure he will be ok with it and eventually become a willing participant!
2006-07-26 15:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 41 years old have never been involved with a woman who wanted sex as much as I did. Call me:)
2006-07-26 15:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by brianlefttoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't feel like doing it right after work, stress and wanting to unwind and stuff. Try propositioning him before bed.
2006-07-26 15:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try and spice it up. Get yourself a French maid outfit and have it on when he comes home.
2006-07-26 15:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋