Whats wrong with being fat?

Question

whats with the wieght issue when did they world suddenly become so anti-fat people I am over wieght ( not through choice I have prolacticima gland prob not making it up I am on so many diets my head is spinning and I am still a size 22) but I am proud of it. I dont want to be a silly stick person! If people cant like me fat then why should being thin make a difference. I have met some beautiful people who were not beautiful physical but personality was amazing.

I think everyone needs to grow the hell up women in magizines are not real they are air burshed to the point they are unrecognisable most of them well die in their 50's cause their bodies are so damaged by the lack of nutrients and they crap they put their bodies through.

When celebs put wieght on its front page news who cares!!! they have a right and so does everyone to be what ever size colour religon they want and if people cant except that then they lose out.

I am damned happy size 22 so live with it fatists!

is not that I am unhealthy its a serious turmour on the puituitary gland on the base of the brain. I walk 6 miles with my border collie (pippa) every day and can do more than my size 12 friend who is gonna kill me if she reads this I am NOT unhealthy or unhappy I am sick of societies attitude so I have come seeking answers.

THANK YOU PEOPLE YOUR ANSWERS ARE FABULOUS!

Answer 1

Besides the health impact of being overweight, there is nothing wrong with being big. :) I'm big, always have been, and probably always will be. Beauty is more than skin deep, people! :)

Answer 2

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but since you asked:

Being overweight is obviously very unhealthy - clogged arteries, heart problems, joint problems etc. Overweight people also die prematurely.

Being overweight is nothing to be proud of, regardless of the cause. It is NOT a good thing. You can be a reasonable healthy weight without being a twiglet person. Being proud of being overweight is the same as anorexic "celebrities" harping on about how healthy they are - anything other than a reasonable healthy weight is bad. It's as simple as that.

Magazines both praise and scold celebrities for putting on weight - they are drivel. They also look down on anyone who's over a size 12 (UK sizes).

Finally, in all honesty, I find it hard to believe you're happy, simply because you've posted an "oh i'm so happy with my size" question. If you really didn't care what people think, why would you feel the need to broadcast to the world how happy you are being overweight??? Who are you trying to convice here? I suspect it's yourself. Maybe you're so "happy" because you can't change your situation.

You seem to be bitter, and I'm sorry that you feel that way, but that's life. Other people can only bother you if you let them, so why let them?

Answer 3

I agree with you there is nothing wrong with over weight people they are all beauitful people in this world can be so rude and never use there brains before they think we are all the same on the inside all have a devide sprit that loves and cares but most people use there earth bound brains to think with.
I am a stick person and it hella sucks can't make good muscle cause i have no fat i think you sound very kind sweet and beauitful in my eye's there are no fat people i don't see the outer person i am always looking at there inter body soul and some people have beauitful souls and some are just plain evil and those kind of people are very scary
best of luck hun
and have a great day
blessed be

Answer 4

I agree that celebs send the wrong message out to people, they are fake people who don't anything. I was a size 2 before I had my 9lbs10oz baby, now I am a size 11. But the only reason I think there is a problem being over weight is because it is unhealthy at a certain point. People are mean they always have been.

Answer 5

Listen love, if your happy within yourself, then thats all that matters. If people can't accept you for you, then their not worth it in the end. I am sure the people who matter to you don't see your weight as a problem. I bet people will read this and say I must be saying all this because I am big, but as it happens, I am not, however if I were, then I can honestly say I don't think it would make me any different being a size 22 as opposed to a size 12! Good luck in life girl! Don't take no shite from no-one!

Answer 6

Our brain is something very complicated. Our common beauty ideals(not fashion), are matching with healthy body. Did you know that the odor of our body is the most important aspect, while the"choice" of a partner, friend...someone whom we simply do not like (to smell even). We do not recognize it, but unconscious we do get very specifics information about the person.
Right now everything is upside down... so everyone tries to loose weight...to look like a victim of KZ. I guess they would put a direct pipe from their throat to their *** if they could. But that is fashion... as those Rubens ladies were it, once upon a time.
For you i would suggest to leave all those diets, most of them are having this yo-yo effect...loose 5 and later on get 10 more. Just live healthy and happy. And take care...

Answer 7

I agree. I'm happy the way I am but I do try to eat less. My family has always be overweight (with a few exceptions : some lucky bugger who is born thin and can stay thin "Cough"my younger sis"Cough""Cough")

Anyways, this is how my best friend puts it -
"Your going to die anyway one day and you will then wonder what the hell was all the worrying about your weight was about."

I just think that its better be able to eat food like normal people than being anorexic. (Not to be nasty or anything)

Answer 8

Society has made it "wrong" to be bigger than stick skinny, lol. I think it's unfortunate too because what size you are has nothing to do with your morals. I've said this so many times before but I'll say it again. There's nothing that makes a skinny, attractive girl uglier than a bad attitude and I think that a good attitude makes you look prettier. I'm not fat, but not skinny either. I'm not happy with my size, but I'm not stressin over it either. And I don't think you are happy with your size either or you wouldn't be on "so many diets that your head is spinning". No one wants to be fat. But I think you can not be bothered by it.

Answer 9

I agree. I am not overweight, so I don't understand what you're going through, but I figure if we all only have one life to live, why try to just improve ourselves physically. Each should do what they enjoy doing. If you're not happy, it's not worth doing. I rather improve myself mentally than physically. Some of the most gorgeous woman have rocks in their head. What good is that to yourself and/or society? I am really glad to read what you wrote. It's eye opening. You have taken my thoughts and wrote them down for the world to see. As lame as this sounds, power to you. Continue doing what makes you happy. Take care.

Answer 10

Its not the fact that you are big, it is the fact that you are unhealthy. I used to weigh 250 pounds, and had the gastric bypass and now weigh 130 pounds. I can't believe I ever let myself get so heavy and so unhealthy. I'm sure you have problems that you don't know about on the inside, and you probably don't visit the doctor because of your weight issues, I know I didn't when I was heavier.

Answer 11

There's nothing wrong by being fat. there are lots of country's were people prefers fat people. But western people have this strange idea that they should like a model. That's why we have those idiot shows on television were people get even operations to look different. This world is sick. We are what we are. Let's accept people for who they are.
(I'm not overweight but I get sick and tired of people judging other people)
And for those of you who says it's not healthy, there are millions of things that are not healthy, for example; alcohol, cigarettes, worrying over other peoples body, being in an abusive relationship, extreme sports etc.