I been having problem. I think sometimes i think know and understand what the other person was saying. But then i don't truelly know if i understand what they are saying. I may question my understand because in school i got alot of "c's" and "d's". I'm insecure about what i actually say i understand too. I say i understand sometimes because it sounds like it make sense. But my understand of it is as narrow and plain as the words given too me. No recalls of structure or picture. Just say yes to that sounds like it sensible.
2006-07-26 08:02:56 · 8 answers · asked by Go girl 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Homework Help
The things is i can't repeat what people say to me. To ask them to clarify what they say.
2006-07-26 08:30:47 · update #1
It's like they throw out words and i can't hardly keep track of the words.
2006-07-26 08:31:57 · update #2
Could you be more specific about what type of questions? Is it a specific subject or is it a more general sense of ignorance? It is fine to feel that you don't understand something but it's burying the problem if you fib and say you understand when you don't think you understand. Because you'll just end up not understanding anything anyway. If you're worried that admitting that you don't understand them will lead to the other person treating you like you're dumb, there are a number of ways to go around that.
You can summarize what they say and repeat it back to them. Misunderstanding is common when people talk to each other so they can assume that you just misheard or something. You can ask them for further clarification and you can avoid saying you don't understand. If this doesn't help, perhaps you need to approach someone who knows you and who you trust with your problem and ask them for help. Since we don't know you, we don't know what's best for you and we can only give you general suggestions but someone who knows you better might be able to give you more specific help.
I hope this helps. Remember, ignorance is the first step to wisdom. I wish you luck!
2006-07-26 08:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Esh F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here are some things to try with the person explaining something to you.
- Ask for an example, if they're telling you a general rule.
- Say "let me repeat that back to you in my own words to make sure I understand you" ( I do this all the time, it's VERY helpful)
- Draw a picture of it for yourself (or make a list if it's more of a list-thing) and check out the drawing or the list with the other person. Ask if you missed anything or if there's anything in there that doesn't belong.
- Take notes if it's a class or meeting. Then when you go back to the notes, if you don't understand what you wrote, ask for help with that particular idea.
- If you're in school, tell a teacher or staff member that you trust about this issue and your worries. See if you can get evaluated for a learning disability. It's not too late even if you are in high school or college, and the help you can get will be much more expert than you can find here on Yahoo.
2006-07-26 15:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Samienela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your problem is with what they are saying, perhaps all you need is a dictionary. Many words have both connotative meanings and denotative meanings. I think you will find the dictionary is a great resource and a mini encyclopedia as well. Here is a great website to get started.
www.m-w.com/dictionary.htm
Plus if you go buy a dictionary make sure it is less than 3 years old as the English language is always growing and changing and you don't want to be out of date.
2006-07-26 15:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Caffeinated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If given the opportunity (which may be hard during class) you should ask the person if you understood what was said. Example: "Mrs. Smith, you mentioned that you would like us to understand the rock cycle. Would you like us to know the individual steps of the rock cycle or more broadly how the rock cycle work?" If it is neither - is will open a conversation for her to explain it more clearly.
2006-07-26 15:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by JT's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't been studying enough, so do not recongnize the terms or words. If you are understanding what they say or said you brain will tell you "I understand what it means" and then you will know what it means. When you say something you just have to think about what you are saying first and then say it. Also, if you really don't understand, and you really need to know, you can just ask them to give you a better explanation! If all fails, talk to your mom or dad or somebody you trust and explain it to them.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-26 15:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by mr.smartperson11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should seek professional help. and dont say you understand until ur 100% sure! good luck
2006-07-26 15:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am with ya...if i dont understand something i will say i do anyway so they wont go into "must teach the simple folk" mode and make me feel more stupid....
2006-07-26 15:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have A.D.D...
or A.D.H.D..
2006-07-26 15:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by 2 days after my B day :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋