Can somebody tell me what to do??

Question

I am 13 years old and my boyfriend is 18 years old.I have 2 kids by him a 10 mth old son, and I am pregnant now(8 1\2 mths).He always hit on me because he think that I cheat on him and he think my kids is not his.I dont know what to do with him nomore I tried to leave him but he found me.He treat me like im his child he wont let me do nothing.When he leave the house he send somebody over the house to make sure I dont go nowhere.When I do something that he dont like he start hit on my stomach.I told him that he could kill the baby and he told me that he would stop but he keep doing it.Im scared to do anything around him because I know that one day he hit me he is going to make me lose my baby.Can somebody tell me what should I do?

When we did have sex I didnt want to he made me.

Answer 1

Please Oh Please get yourself and your children OUT of this situation. Contact a Battered Women's Shelter, they can help you and your kids get out and place you in a "safe house" where your boyfriend can't find you. You didn't mention if you had a phone, go to a neighbor, or a friend and please call the police. I'm assuming you have an internet connection. Go to ehow.com and look up how to contact a battered women's shelter in your area. Good Luck and Much Strength. You will need it!

Answer 2

Your 13 and now your going to be a mother of 2. Didn't you get it the first time. Where are your parents? Why is he not in jail for sex with a minor? Your not even to the age of consent. You are the only one to blame. There are plenty of agencies to help support and protect you. Cabinet for children and family services, women's crisis center they can even help you file a police report. He is probably going to see this and beat you again. And how did you find a free minute to ask a question without being watched. You choose your path. Be smart for your kids at least.

Answer 3

Your 13 and going on your scond baby? WTF is the matter with your parents? If anything you need to be taken out of thier custody and as for your 18 year old boyfriend he needs to be in jail for child molesting because sleeping with you is against the law, hell dating you is against the law.

I honesty think this is a job for DCF..Your parents obviously are not responsible if they let thier 13 year old little girl go get knocked up twice by a adult who on top of this is abusive and to be really truthful with you I honestly do not beleive what you are saying.

You would of been 12 when you had your first baby and that is just very hard to beleive not to mention being with an adult and going on your second child at only 13.

Bonita2079 just tolet you know thier was actually a 5 year old who gave birth like 60 years ago, she was raped by her father and gave birth to a little boy.

Answer 4

First and foremost, it looks like you have to go back to school. Why on earth did you have a baby this young in the first place. You really screwed your life up big time. Do you think that you are making ANY good decisions in your life? It makes me sad to know that there are children like you out there having more children that are just going to do the same thing because they werent raised properly. Go to your parents for help and get a restraining order in place for your boyfriend. You are way to young to be dealing with any of this.

Answer 5

you need some serious help. if you have no adults if your life to turn to, look in your phone book for a women's shelter. when he is away, pack your things and get yourself and your baby out of there. do not ever go back or call him or any of his friends or even your friends. they might think they are doing you a favor by telling him where you are. let the shelter people help you and do what they tell you. do this as soon as possible. or when you go to the doctor's for your prenatal check-ups, there are usually brochures that say "are you being abused?" you say yes and ask for help. do it today. if you haven't done this and he hits you again call the cops. they will have to arrest him if you say it hit you. while he is in lock up take off. please do this.

Answer 6

First of all, you are WAY TOO YOUNG to be having sex, let alone having children!!!!!!! Now that we have that out of the way, since what's done is done and there's nothing we can do about it....

Find your nearest women's shelter. They will have the resources to help you out. Tell your parents. Tell the police. No woman should ever have to put up with an abusive man. He needs to be reported because it is a crime to hit a pregnant woman.

Answer 7

Get the ****out of that life style it only gets worse. What were you thinking aren't you a little young to have kids. You are just now becoming a teenager. Where are your parents? Call the cops are he might end up killing you or the baby.

Answer 8

Okay the first thing you have to do is take your son and LEAVE immediatly. Then go to a friend or relative's house. If you dont have anyone, go to a police station, a hospital, a women's shelter, anywhere. Then call the police from there and tell them your story.
Good luck to you and your children/

Answer 9

Try and get help; call the police and get out of there. The baby could suffer severely and might not even survive. Do what's best for the baby at this point. You don't need your boyfriend.

Answer 10

First you need to relinquish your parental rights and give your children to the state, and let social services find them good homes, (including the unborn child) Next you need to have your tubes tied. The guy isn't the problem. You must like him or you wouldn't keep spreading your legs and calling him your "boyfriend". You are an idiot.