and you had been living with a woman and her two children for over a year and are engaged to this woman and your mother tells you that you have to tell your father who will be basically enraged, how would you tell him?
2006-07-26 07:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by Katrina Y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Bring up the subject of bisexuals and see what he says. If he makes rude comments then try to get him to see the other side of things. Convince him that there's nothing wrong with bisexuals, it just a preference. I mean, you can't help who you love. Thats just not the way it works. Say " You want me to be happy right?" then tell him that you are happy, that you could be no happier, and that you want him to be happy for you no matter what. Then tell him straight up what's going on. If he gets pissed then whatever. As long as you're happy thats all that matters. He will eventually warm up to the idea and get over it. Afterall, you are his daughter. Don't worry about it too much. Everything will work out even if it seems impossible at first. Keep ya head up and follow your heart.
2006-07-26 08:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Cira 2 · 25⤊ 4⤋
he may be old school and disown you, only U can decide if telling him is worth the risk. However, if being Bi is part of who u are then u shouldn't be afraid to tell anyone!!
good luck
2006-07-26 15:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - your mother cannot force you to do anything - let HER tell him it its to damned important.
Second - if YOU WANT to tell him - Warn him you gotta tell him something big (so he can brace himself) and then spit it out right away. If he's ticked...... there is NOTHING anyone can do to prevent it.
2006-07-26 15:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the father loves his daughter like he needs to he want care...but if he dint like it tell him to f u c k off cause it aint nun of his business anyway..
2006-07-26 14:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by sexi_pink_panther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy dear coz i am selfdependable person my money my house my life , not anyones interference .
2006-07-26 15:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by handsum025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants a b.j to relax him
2006-07-26 14:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by rolando h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋