This is not a joke, so don't be rude or sarcastic. She certainly tries hard and she has a good attitude, but it just doesn't happen.
Years ago, I had a woman make me orgasm very quickly through fellatio, and that's one of my favorite memories. I would love to replicate that!
2006-07-26 07:52:05 · 15 answers · asked by dex9753 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell he how u want her to make u climax. tell her to use her tongue while she sucking u that should make u climax.
2006-07-26 15:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What did that woman do differently? You have to tell her what you like and don't. If she is doing something that feels really good say so and she'll keep doing it. Maybe you need to be more aroused before she even starts so she's not going at it for a long time and getting tired of it. Maybe your body has changed since the experience you had years ago. Also, and this may be gross, but she can go through the back door and stimulate your prostrate gland when you are getting close. Some guys don't like that, because they have a problem with it, but if they tried it, they would probably change their mind. I don't do it anymore, because the last time I tried it, the guy freaked out and now I'm afraid to try it again.
2006-07-26 15:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now I hope this doesnt offend you or your lady but have you watched pornos together? I know it sounds really weird but after watching them maybe she can see some different techniques and you can both talk about what you like and/or dislike. COMMUNICATION is the key here though. You shouldnt be embarrassed to tell her what she is doing right or wrong and she shouldnt be embarrassed to take a little constructive criticism. If you would not be interested in that then maybe you can go to an adult store like Christies Toy Box or something and they have all kinds of flavored things, c*ck rings, etc that may help!
2006-07-26 15:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by breeokc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her tips while she is doing yet. Edible lubricant will help her stay down there longer. Tell her to use her hands. If she eats a cough drop before hand it will numb her throat so she can deep throat better and the tingly sensation will feel good to you. Maybe more foreplay for build up. Try an ice cube too.
2006-07-26 14:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all does she really want to perform oral sex to you, thats question 1 you should ask her. If so then try this. the next time she peforms oral sex on you. Let it be a learning experince for both of you. Take time to tell and show her what turns you on. I have learn that if you say ok baby this is my body I want you to explore it. And just lay on the bed naked and let her take her time and explore every inch of your body and let her see for herself what your actions does from each touch. then let herstart the oral sex her own way. And when needed talk softly to her and tell her what turns you on. Even take your hand a lightly show her. You be surprise what could come of this. Good luck
2006-07-26 15:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her but don't tell her "another girl" could do it. Tell her that so far no one has been able to give a perfect 10 BJ. She will see this as a challenge and will go to town on you. However, as she gets closer don't lie and keep giving her rating which get higher and higher. Otherwise she will lose interest at quit. Play ur cards right and u will get head for a month without asking for it!
2006-07-26 14:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay her on her stomache and use either a pillow or a liberator ramp to elevate her up to you, then lick it from bottom to top like this, but make sure to go back to the lil hard spot "clitorus" and move it back and forth. But lay her on her belly and try it this way its a different feeling for her.
2006-07-26 14:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Romie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her experiment with things like ice, mint candy, things that may change your temp. Also if she has candy in her mouth she'll get more into it try jolly ranchers. Let her take her time, the longer she teases you, the more excited you will get. Also not to be grouse but my husband loves when I lick his balls and ***hoe. She has to be willing to experiment and enjoy it. Try 69. Maybe if your both doing it at the same time it'll help both yours and her moods.
2006-07-26 15:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like something that shouild be discussed on a talk show like jerry springer, get the woman that gave you the good head to be there as a suprise guest, let the two girls punch it out, have them oil wrestle get in the middel why not have some fun with it
2006-07-26 14:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I some times have the same problem.
hold off on sex of any kind for about a week or more
then when she does it you are so ready it will not be a problem for her to make you climax.
Works foe me....
2006-07-26 14:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by poisondragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really has to be into it...u have to guide her the way u want it...start with telling her to deep throat it more...u guys like that....she needs to play around n u have to inform her of wht exactly u like...stroking, sucking, licking etc.
2006-07-26 14:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by chaand5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋