This has happend a couple of times. I have been in stores, and men will strike up conversations with me, and then a couple minutes later, women will come by and tell they have to leave and give me a dirty look. I have also seen men stare at me, and then the women they are with give me a dirty look, sometimes they have kids/they are pregnant. What's the deal? Arn't I allowed to talk to someone if they talk to me?
2006-07-26 07:50:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they are idiots, and they are married to men who can't keep thier eyes off other women. You have a right to talk to anyone you wish, including married men, as long as you arn't making rondezvous plans with them.
2006-07-26 07:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
QUIT BEING SO SELF-ABSORBED! not every man wants you, and you create enemies if you try to make every man want you.
You probably send the message that you are available by the way you dress, for one, and two, you probably flirt a little too much. Maybe you have a low self esteem and need to flirt and try to make guys (especially committed ones) like you so you can feel more powerful as a woman.
Get over yourself and start looking beyond your own self-serving needs. Look for things like wedding rings, significant others, etc. Show other women you are NOT THE ENEMY!
BIG HINT: Most men who are out shopping at stores, are either there with their ladies, or shopping for something for them. Guys don't typically like to shop.
Sure you may talk to men, but early in the conversation, look around for their other half, or ask them if they are with their wife today.
2006-07-26 15:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. It happens to me all the time, and it's rather inconsequential what other women do or think. I never, ever approach a man or initiate contact with him, but they do all the time. I also (other than writing this on here in response to your question), don't brag about it. It's nothing, and I'd just shrug it off. Go with the flow. Not everyone is going to like everyone else.
2006-07-26 15:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you want people who give you answers here to say somthing like....."men talk to you because you are pretty & the women give you dirty looks because they are jealous. And then men stare at you because you are exceptionally pretty and sexy"
If that is what you want me to write something like that- then I need to tell you that I am not going to say that becasue you are looking for validation in a sneeky way.
2006-07-26 14:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just helping the cheaters stay cheaters. Why would you want to talk to someone else's husband or bf - find someone else to talk to - your not that lonely are you? I also get into those situations and just pretend I didn't hear that person say anything and walk the other direction - it not worth the chat.
2006-07-26 14:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... because their men will strike up conversations with you ... and stare at you.
Maybe it is how you dress or look ... you are probably very very hot!!! a real hotte!
Just think what you would do if you were in their shoes
2006-07-26 14:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Aviator_Warrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, talk to anyone you want....knock you socks off............they are just strangers in a store, for goodness sakes......its not like they are taking you home, obviously.
2006-07-26 14:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can be stupid like that ignore them!
2006-07-26 15:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki Rox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋