Did you slim down recently or a while ago? Did it make a difference in the chemistry between you and him? Did he pressure you to loose weight or was it all your? Details, details!!
2006-07-26 07:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by shannonlilia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Around Christmas, I started using our weight bench, doing crunches, pushups, and he went wild. It's not that I lost all that much, but I did tone up quite a bit. He brags about it to every body, he likes to watch me do my little workouts in the evening, he's been really supportive. When I got rid of my baby belly fat, I got my navel pierced to celebrate and he couldn't get over it. He enjoys that I wear more revealing (still conservative compared to what girls are wearing, I'm not trying to look like a teenager) clothes now and I've been growing my hair out. It revved everything up, he is so attentive. I think he appreciates that I am trying to take care of myself, trying to look good for him. I think it is an important way to show somebody that you care, to be physically active and ready for anything. No pressure on his part, he just enjoys the view! Lots of luck to you, and have fun!
2006-07-26 07:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by shycello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently lost a little over 50 lbs. My husband never pressured me to lose weight I did for health reasons. He loved me before the loss and our sex life was good. After the loss I have noticed him looking at me more. He says nice things alot too. And to be honest our sex life has never been better!!!! So if you plan to lose weight i highly recommend it.
2006-07-26 15:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently lost 100 lb. I think I could count on one hand the times my husband commented on it. He did not pressure me to lose weight, maybe I thought he would love me more if I did . . . he didn't! I have received more confidence boosters from others than I ever did from him.
2006-07-26 14:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are currently losing weight together! Its fun for us to help each other get to where we want to be....he tells me continuously that he loves me for who i am and will love me no matter what....i was big when he met me so i know he loves me :) My weight loss goal is 80 pounds....and his is 50 so we'll both look drastically different! I'm sure that once we reach our goal the fun will never stop :) :)
2006-07-26 14:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey any weight lost will make us guys happy and want you more trust me same goes for the guys it make the love life better both ways.
2006-07-26 14:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never pressure my wife she goes up and down
2006-07-26 14:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋