DISTURBING DREAM- what does this dream mean?

Question

In my dream my boyfriend and i was going to this cafe and all of a sudden it changed into a abandon apartment and we were running away from these mean half demon girls my boyfriend and i escaped from them and we were trying to exit from this apartment then i realized i had dropped my purse or something whatever it was it was valuable so he said he'll look for an exit while i go back and find my belonging. We parted i found my bag and i was going back to the way i came from someone blocked the ways i just passed so i couldnt get through but with my survival mode i managed and i got to this door on top of the stairs where i was trying to open and only to find out that my boyfriend was holding the door so i couldnt open it. I panicked yelled to open the door and realized that those girls and my boyfriend were both against me so as i turned away to go look for another exit my boyfriend peeked the door and threw these acid flakes that i knew that would blow up so i ran n woke up

Answer 1

at the time of need, wenever it is, he will leave u alone. don't trust him to always hav ur back.

Answer 2

Hmmm... the location doesn't feel like anything relevant, it started at the cafe maybe because that's what you are familiar with and that's a good starting point. The fact that they were demon girls and not just demons could be a sense of insecurity with your beau. Maybe you noticed him looking at another girl the last time you were out, or maybe a girl checking him out (if you found him attractive chances are someone else could too).

Something valuable- Could be anything that is important to you and not to him (if it's a new relationship he might not even know about it). Was there anything in your recent past that you and him argued about that was important to you that you feel wasn't important to him?

Stairs, the idea that you were going up the stairs is that you are venturing forward. Maybe your relationship is ready for the next level? He's holding the door... (remember this is your dream, not his) so it may not be that he ins't ready. You could be that you THINK he isn't ready, or worse yet, you FEEL he isn't ready. So maybe you don't talk to him about it and again, he doesn't where you stand (us guys have a great ability of not thinking about stuff we are not thinking about).

Bfriend & Girls vs. you- Again, this is YOUR dream. Is your insecurities about him getting in the way of you 'opening the door'? Could it be your feelings of unsureness are keeping you from moving forward? Displacing the 'blame' outward is a male trait (inward- female), but this is your dream so inward is what is going on. I mean how did you come to realize that he and the demon girls were both against you in the dream? Did you see both him and the demon girls holding the door or are you assuming it?

Acid flakes- You knew they would blow up. Has your bfriend been pestering you about anything lately?

Dreams can have the ability of realizing your feelings deep down inside, but since they are inside you they have a crafty way of twisting in your own head (usually with current events in your life). I would say they could be a definate feeling of insecurity with him, but probably caused by thoughts of taking the next step with him. Anything that can push the relationship forward whether that's a commitment, a third date, a proposal, or even meeting his parents. This creates a stress, and stress can create a torrid/twisted thought.

I think it's a case of 'cold feet' but I also think he might not have a clue (as most of us guys are prone to, me included :-). Talk to him about you two. Not about the dream, or the "future", just how you guys are doing. In my experience when there is two people involved, it's best to involve the two people... that are involved. :-D

Answer 3

In my dream my boyfriend and i was going to this cafe and all of a sudden it changed into a abandon apartment - at this point of my life i was happy with everything me and my bf does and then he gets lazy and gives me less

and we were running away from these mean half demon girls my boyfriend and i escaped from them and we were trying to exit from this apartment then i realized i had dropped my purse or something whatever it was it was valuable so he said he'll look for an exit while i go back and find my belonging.- i saw what he wanted which is a female he doesn't have to work for (not me, i deserve the work), i escape and took him with me and we got stuck trying to escape and i realized i lost something of value given to me in past so he went to go get it and i let him put his life in the line of danger (of being lost in this relationship).

We parted i found my bag and i was going back to the way i came from someone blocked the ways i just passed so i couldnt get through but with my survival mode i managed and i got to this door on top of the stairs where i was trying to open and only to find out that my boyfriend was holding the door so i couldnt open it.- he left (with the instincts of saving my material thing) and my bag was close to me i realized so i picked it up and went searching for him so we can get out. to my knowledge all ways i came to get to the exit with him has closed (i felt so shut off that me and him are fading). i went on and went to the top of some stairs to find him locking me out for a less harder life.

I panicked yelled to open the door and realized that those girls and my boyfriend were both against me so as i turned away to go look for another exit my boyfriend peeked the door and threw these acid flakes that i knew that would blow up so i ran n woke up- i saw them consuming him with there easiness and turning him into a baby, when he suppose to man up for me. i looked for a way for me to get in but when i tried he made it clear that i wasn't needed in the relationship anymore.


um no clue how your relationship going but this isn't a reality outcome, cause it may be just a dream or a message that when he gets babied he will stay a baby.

Answer 4

I think this dream is a manifestation of some relationship security issues you are having. Very normal. Dreams where someone is chasing you, or trying to hurt you, it's been my experience, come about because of stress. Is this a new relationship? Perhaps you are having some trust issues? Perhaps in your dream you wanted him to save you and he turned out to be the guy holding the door throwing acid flakes at you and now you are disappointed. Maybe you are thinking this dream is some kind of warning and that is why it bothers you?

BTW it probably isn't a warning, my feeling and experience has been that this dream is a result of mild relationship stress and your own desire to be protected/rescued by your boyfriend and your fear that he will let you down.

Answer 5

Wow your dream seems like a movie plot

Let me try to analyze

Abandon apartment = give up place, end of relationship
boy friend turned against you = non-trust
demon girls = bad influence

It is so obviously that you are losing trust with your boy friend due to some bad influence he may have in your mind. You try so hard to escape from them and yet you are betrayed by your boy friend. The picture shows that you are totally losing trust subconsciously from your boy friend. He may have some issues that you know of in reality. You projected them as demon girls tagging along with your boy friend. This is probably some issues you see in reality about your boy friend.

In conclusion, the dream is totally about how you see your boy Friend and how his influence makes you not to trust him fully.

I could be wrong, but this is how I see from the dream!

Answer 6

In your dream he left you to get your purse. Sounds like you are telling yourself you are afraid he will leave you. But that you were running together may reflect some emotional rollercoaster in your relationship. Remember that every character in your dreams is another version of yourself, and not the person they appear to be in a physical sense.

Answer 7

I dont think this is how your dream really went, I think you just reinterpreted it to fit a filling or a situation, because, Ive had a dream very similar to what the earlier part of your story says, but differing to the end, because I wasnt turned on

Answer 8

Sounds like some trust issues with yourself about your boyfriend and your female friend.

Answer 9

According to Nietzsche, dreams tell us what we really think about a person. This does *not* mean that our ideas about this person are accurate. It does mean that, deep down, you think your boyfriend's against you.

Answer 10

This could be read many ways, but I'll give a simple possibility . . .
Fear of commitment and either probable or improbable cause to believe your boyfriend isn't totally commited to you.

Answer 11

Maybe you have some doubts about this relationship and see it filled with hazards for you. Are you worried about this guy?