it seems like..............?

Question

it seems like i cant trust ne1. it seems like everytime o trust some1 they stab me in the back. what should i do?

Answer 1

Only trust each person once. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but don't truly trust anyone until they prove that they are trustworthy.

Answer 2

That is a hard question to answer. I would say not to trust everyone. Go with you gut instinct and also stop and think about who really loves you and has been there for you even if it seemed they might have betrayed your trust at one time. If they have stood by you thru everything then chances are they really care and you should give them the benefit of the doubt and be there for them too. If the people havent stood by you and have back-stabbed you and betrayed you then let em go because they arent worth the sh** on your shoe.

Answer 3

Lemme kno when you figure it out. I guess it is just a way of life. People want to get eveything thing you got then turn around and burn you. Trust only the ones you love. If they turn there back on you, then that was there last chance. Don't give anyone a second chance. If they do it once they they will do it plenty more. So just give the people you love one chance and one chance only. I really don't know what else to tell you. I hope this helps! Ttyl. Bye

Answer 4

I am sorry you feel that way...I understand what you're going through. I once was in that situation. But all you have to do is get the bad out of your life and find good people. Don't be so trusting. They will walk all over you. I know it's hard b/c you want to always see the good in everyone.

Answer 5

Oh, I have had that happen. Makes it hard to trust anyone.
It takes me a long time to trust people now. Sometimes to the point that I only see bad until they prove me wrong!
My advice to you, is just be cautious. Keep your guard up and let it down slowly....gradually.
Not everyone is untrustworthy, and you will find someone that has the sincerety and the trustworthiness you are looking for!

Answer 6

I know how you feel and I've been through it many times. It is sad to say this but cut yourself off from people and live in your own bubble and do not allow anyone to break it. That is what I do. After giving people chance after chance year after year and being stabbed in the back so many times I just gave up and surround myself with animals because they cannot ever stab you in the back.

Answer 7

Don't trust people with important things, and don't confide (tell secrets) to people that are major secrets.

Eventually you'll find a friend that's your "best" friend and can finish your sentences, but until then keep important things to yourself so people have little motive to stab you in the back.

Answer 8

I used to have the same problem. When I was young my parents got upset when I trusted people, who to them, didn't deserve it and got hurt. They told me I should not trust so easily. I didn't and still don't believe I should have to change myself because some people are dishonest. I learned limits. I trust people always, until they prove they cannot be trusted. If you lie to me or betray me I'm done because I cannot have those people in my life.

Answer 9

Maybe you're TRUSTING with to much information about yourself and your personal business. Think about what you are going to say before you say it. Ask yourself how would you react to that same information if it was being told to you. Generally no one is trusting, you just have to know them well enough to know what to give TO them and what not to. How far you can GO with them and when to pull back. Actually trust is knowing.

Answer 10

You just need to be more careful in who you trust. You need trust in your life, you just pick the wrong person. Take the time to get to know them before you put any kind of trust in them.