I was just wondering which men find more attractive. I am attorney who pulls in a good salary and I depend on my husband for nothing. We are both work hard and play hard and have the best of both world. A beautiful house, great cars, great vacations, good times.
My friend on the other hand refuses to work, she has one daughter who she HAS to stay home with even through her mother lives right down the road and can watch the baby while she works. Her husband works in a really low paying hard work job and they need the extra income, but she still refuses to work and spend a lot of money
So men, which is more attractive to you, a woman who works and a woman who stays home all day while you go out to work?
2006-07-26 07:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by Rose 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well im a girl but i've asked that same question.. and guyz find it more sexy the more independent you are.
2006-07-26 07:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful_Brunette235 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but I would like to know what you have against your friend staying at home with her child. Yea she could go to work, but is having money more important then spending what years she can as home with her daughter. Do you honestly think it should be up to someone else to teach her kid what is right and wrong. A child's first few years are the most important I think all people who have kids should be there to take care of them and teach them until they are ready for school then find a job. It doesn't has to be the mom to stay home it could be the day our they could switch off but someone should be there. There will be plenty of time to make money, but not many years with their daughter at this critical stage in her life. Get over your money making self and quit judging your friend. If you are worried about how much she spending maybe you can suggest doing things together that doesn't cost her an arm and a leg. She is probably only spending like she dose to keep up with you. Be a friend.
2006-07-26 14:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. I am sure, your husband finds you sexier and more attractive, most specially that you are a lawyer and earning good. Other men also, I bet are attracted to you. But on the other hand, some persons just want there wife to stay at home to tend to their children and their needs, and when he comes home she is there, newly bath sexy and ready, that makes him feel good, thus finds her sexier, more attractive. In many cases men are turned off by women of higher stature than them.
2006-07-26 14:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all. with due respect. its none of your business what goes on in her house. thats between her and her family. not you.be happy that you choose to work and are blessed with a good job. etc. when and if she needs to be forced to work due to financies. she will. in the old days a woman never worked . the husband was the bread winner. due to the cost of living everywhere. both spouses are now forced to work.you can feel compassion for her but never be judgemental of anyone else. charity begins at home. so let them solve thier own problems. this has nothing to do with anything sexual or independence. remember that. good luck
2006-07-26 14:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by flashboard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like an independant woman that can hold her own. just in case im not able to be there. like firemen, police. or military people that are most likely to be away from home for long periods of time. i dont like if a woman has to ask me to borrow money to go out or do what she needs.it also depends on if there are kids present,because someone will have to stay and watch them.
2006-07-26 14:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexy? i wouldn't define either as sexy. but... i find both of you, too involved in your career life that you miss out on the true depth of married life.You guys are living more as room mates than a genuinely loving couple. As for them... i think she's a bit selfish by spending that poor lad's income while he's slogging away to feed his family.
2006-07-26 14:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by cre8or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An independent women. She has her own mind. Some men do not want this type, because some men have a need to control their women. I don't.
2006-07-26 14:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Working woman will be tired by the end of the day while house wife get plenty of rest during the day and stay up all........night thats why the house wife is the best. Only limitation is some time house wife don't even take a rest during the day too........I mean.................... you know!...............
2006-07-26 14:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by charotar_green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋