im 14 how do you know if your gay?

Question

i like look at boys but i dont get hard looking at them like when i look at girls

Answer 1

Maybe you are bi-sexual

Answer 2

It's completely normal to be confused about whether you're homosexual or not at this age. I should know, I'm about your age... anyway, I look at the same sex, but it's only out of interest for how the other one is. It has nothing to do with love or physical desire- just to compare or see how an older person of the same sex is! Just pure curiosity! So, don't worry, you'll know anyway when you're older... you'll be totally sure then, but already now you can probably feel that you'd rather be a girl in every way than a boy.

Good luck and hope this helped! :)

Answer 3

Zac, all people look at other people.....you r probably not gay. but you might not know for many years yet....some people r in their 30's before they figure it out. If the thought of kissing a girl or touching her makes you excited even a little, then don't stress on it....besides even if you r gay, what does it matter. Good luck.

Answer 4

Don't listen to the kids who say "If you have to ask, you are." What a load. If you have to ask, it means you're trying to be honest with yourself. *Everyone* seems to need to ask him or herself this at one time.

There's some evidence that teenagers are predisposed towards experimenting with the same sex during their adolescence regardless of whether they're gay or not. The pheremones you are most attracted to will shift towards the preferred gender later in your teens.

Truth is, you may be confused about it for years. Don't try to label yourself (news flash, kids: there are more than the three options of straight, bi, or gay) at such a young age that you have practically no experience to compare it to. You'll find out by your late twenties, I promise.

Answer 5

If you like "looking" at boys, you might be bisexual, meaning you like both genders. There aren't any guidelines to being homosexual--it's mostly a personal finding, something you believe in. Most people see homosexuals as people who sexually interact with their same gender. If you think you are "gay", that's fine. There's nothing "wrong" with you--it's just who you are. Don't let anybody pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with, though. Just be aware that if you decide to tell people you do like men sexually, some people might not be able to handle it....

Answer 6

You know if your gay when you have an erection for a hot guy, vs. a hot girl. But come out only when you're comfortable with your decision because being gay in high school is really tough.

Answer 7

I'm ashamed of some of your answers "YOUR GAY!, if you have to ask then you must be gay" these people don't know what their saying and the only way they get their laughs is to bash people. don't listen to them! you could be bi, strait, or gay. you are not gay until you establish that you like guys more than girls. your not sinning any thing(if you follow the bible) because they see that its wrong to have intercourse with someone of the same sex. your most likely not gay!

Answer 8

Im not, but I think putting a c*ck in your mouth would be a pretty good indicator (or any orifice for that matter) unless your a woman. Then, giving somebody else the 3 knuckle shuffle might put you on that side of the fence. Im not a doctor, but still pretty sure.

Answer 9

hey kid im 25 yrs. when i was a teen i had a gay friend he loved to hung around with only girls , maybe cause he liked to act like us girls. but he didnt realize he really like boys until he was 18 yrs. old so dont worry kid its ok if you if your confused youll realize soon enough....

Answer 10

If you have to ask, well, then you are wondering. Most people just know if they are gay. Like they know if they are not. Same difference.

Answer 11

I know I'm not gay because I like women.