2006-07-26 07:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sorry I meant know now
2006-07-26 07:22:47 · update #1
yeah
I mean no..no way.
yes.
yes , I would.
2006-07-26 12:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Hippie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not sure what you are fishing for, but, I am so glad that I decided to file for my divorce when I did. The legal system and process was nothing compared to what I endured. Without going into the specifics, let me just say, no one should be unhappy in their own home. I have a hard time believing that God, Allah, Krishnan, the Pope, Buddha, Mother Superior, any loving parents,true friends, or even ones' children would want to see you unhappy. I waited about 3.5 yrs before saying that enough was enough. I called a lawyer friend, filed the divorce, went to court, got custody of my son, and, now 5 years have gone by and my son and I are happy to welcome his new stepmom, and, my new wife into our family. Sometimes you have to weigh things and figure out whats most important to you. Marriage isn't some day to day b.s., like high school, or, college dating. Everything is 50/50, and, you have to be willing to consider your "better half", as well as, the rest of your family, ie, kids. Bottom line is don't get married because someone thinks that you should, You have to be ready...By the same token, don't stay in any relationship just because someone suggests that you should remain in it regardless of how unhealthy it may be.
2006-07-26 07:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Cash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have married him if I knew then what I know now. It was a very quickie marriage (only lasted 6 months) even though we were together for 2 years before that. We didn't have any kids (or even pets) together so my life wouldn't be so drastically different if we hadn't married. Now, if we had kids, then I'd probably do it all over again just to have the kids. But THANKFULLY, we never procreated!
And now we never have to see eachother AGAIN, EVER.
Now I'm remarried, and have a beautiful baby. I just call my first marriage, my "Starter Marriage".
2006-07-26 07:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by curious_maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still have married him, but I might not have stayed in the marriage as long as I did. The relationship gave me a lot of the things/experiences that make me who I am today, and I genuinely like me the way I am. I also was blessed with two incredibly wonderful children. So, yes, knowing what I now know, I'd still say "I do" when I said I did.
2006-07-26 09:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Done what, the divorce? Sure I'd get divorced again in a heartbeat. No sense staying in a broken relationship.
2006-07-26 07:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I thought at the time I knew what real love was. now that i am older I realized what it really is.
2006-07-26 07:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotten married or gotten divorced?
2006-07-26 07:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by itty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, got married for the wrong reasons.
2006-07-26 07:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by JAM123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would not of gotten married in the first place
2006-07-26 07:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean would you do it if you knew then what you KNOW now
2006-07-26 07:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by puresplprix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if by "it" you mean get married in the first place? NO!!!
2006-07-26 07:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋