If you are in a committed relationship/marriage why should there be privacy issues. If your not hiding anything and to make the other person more at ease why get upset about them reading emails or checking phones and so on.
2006-07-26 07:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there should be no privacy you are married I say check away why would the other get mad unless there is something to hide
2006-07-26 07:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about all marriages, but I know in my marriage we don't have "privacy issues." I don't usually read my husband's e-mail, but on occasion have gone into his e-mail to look for something specific, and he has no problem with that. I don't like anyone to read over my shoulder while I'm typing, but I don't have anything that I wouldn't let my husband read if he wanted to. The whole family listens to phone messages. I don't go out of my way to listen to my husband's work phone messages, but he often plays them back while I'm in the room.
So . . . your question brings up a couple of questions for me. Why would one person feel the need to check up on the other? Has one person done something to make the other question and need to check? Or is the checker just being nosy and insecure? Is the other person annoyed because it seems like the one is being nosy and insecure or because there is really something to hide?
It seems that these two people need to sit down and talk calmly and honestly about what is going on. In general, there should be nothing in e-mails, on-line, phone messages, etc. that needs to remain secret from the other person except birthday presents and other pleasant surprises.
2006-07-26 07:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE should read your emails or phone messages because you are an individual and EVERYONE is entitled to privacy even if they have nothing to hide. Even if your married to the love of your life you are both are merely sharing your lives with each other...you are not ONE person
2006-07-26 07:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right privacy isn't an issue when your married. You shouldn't hide anything from the person you married, b/c u married them for a reason.
2006-07-26 07:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's respect for personal space. Everyone needs a place they can call their own...I have mine and my husband has his. We respect each other's space and even though we have absolutely nothing to hide from one another we do not read the other's e-mails. It's not hiding anything, it's nothing more than respect...at least in my marriage it is...and we have a very good relationship.
2006-07-26 07:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question babe. if nothing is being hidden there shouldn't be any getting upset on either party. when you are married you two become one....
in other words there is no secrecy, nor there should be.
2006-07-26 07:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should tell and reveal everything.
2006-07-26 20:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I TELL MY WIFE EVEYTHING
2006-07-26 07:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋