why is it important to be positivein life?

Question

Even after failing several times in life at the same thing how does one motivate oneself to remain positive in life. Why should u keep trying the same thing with the hope that someday i will suceed.

Answer 1

because what goes around comes around ..

Answer 2

Bablu Jee, shayad ye aapke kaam ka answer ho..

We all face problems in our life that seem impossible to overcome and feel that we have no control over our life whatsover. Going through adversity happens to the best of us but you cant dwell on the negative experiences or you`re just going to end up being more upset than you would`ve been if you stayed positive. The true tests of life are not what your problems are, but they are the ways you went about overcoming them.
Staying positive under adversity is a characteristic few people possess and can take a life time to learn.

The most important thing to do when faced with a problem is to locate the source. What caused the negative thought or experience? Is there any way you can avoid the situation so it doesn`t happen again? Negative issues are a factor that take a toll on everything you do. It gives you the mindset that you can`t do anything right and keeps you from achieving the goals you have set for yourself. Most negative thoughts are only imaginary but when you have an outside source causing the problem, do whatever you can to overcome the issue.

Write down specifically the problem you are facing and research ways that will help you achieve what you need to do. Study other people who went through the same battles as you are going through and get inspired by their attitude and perseverance towards the problem. Everything in life has obstables, you need to realize that trials are all a part of the game and always keep focused on the specific goal you want to accomplish.

A positive mindset is one of the best traits a person can have.
You feel in control of your life and believe you will be successful at everything you do. Being positive will also lead to a more productive life that wouldn`t be possible if you kept abiding in the past. A good example of a positive person is bicyclist, Lance Armstrong. After suffering testicular cancer , he still had the determination to move on and finish his career with 7 Tour De France wins. If you are looking for an inspirational story, read about this man!

Staying positive under adversity is a true test of maturity. It will make you stronger in the long run and all the battles you face in the future will seem painless because you`ve exerienced tougher battles. Trials are like Basic Training for the military. Everything seems confusing and impossible at the beginning, but after time you start to gain discipline that will be used on the battlefield if the situation arises. It`s the same way in life. A positive attitude is the only way to achievieving what you are looking for. Until next time, think positive!

Answer 3

Being positive gives you a great outlook on life.
Being gloomy all day only brings frowns to faces.
When you frown, you will only get more down.
It is important because it is your life!
You have only one chance to live through it. Do you want to live it happily or think of everything as a negative side?
Sure there are bound to be things that will sometimes irritate you, people talking bad about, people playing fortune tellers saying that you will never succeed. It is your own duty to not get affected by these negative thoughts.

How to motivate oneself after failing many times?
There's one thing you can do.
Smile!
You have gain experience from these failures.
People fail all the time. But it's those people who never gave up that will be great.
Edison didn't give up at 1 test of the filament. So you even more shouldn't!
However, doing the same thing and expecting different results is insanity. Try a different approach. See from other people's point of view.

To motivate yourself....
Ask yourself what are the pushing factors in your life?
What makes you work so hard for?
Who do you work for?
And most importantly, Why?
Find the why and you will fly!

Answer 4

Sometimes when we try one thing over and over again and do not succeed in overcoming it or mastering it, that may be a sign that you need to just move on and try something else. I read somewhere that in order to succeed you need to fail. Because in failing in one thing can open doors for you to succeed in another. And who knows, you just may be able to find a different perspective in the new thing that you tried that may just work for the thing you didn't succeed in in the first place.

Life is new everyday. Even our own days on this planet - is new. When we are in a situation, there are a series of steps we take. Perhaps there is a step that has you challenged and you are unable to get through. Not to worry. Someday it may be that you will figure it out.

Also, talk to someone about it. No one will be able to make you succeed or tell you what to do, but a suggestion my inspire you to make the right choice for you.

Enjoy today, for tomorrow may never come.

That's positiveness. Keep going. Keep trying. And don't think.. DO!! Postiveness promotes a healthy well being and self esteem not to mention a healthy body and soul.

Have a super fab day! :)

Answer 5

how to remain positive in life: lemme tell u this, its all in your attitude.. even if you want to remain positive in life but you don't strive towards doing so, nothing will happen. You remain being positive by seeing everything in the optimist way.. perhaps instead of saying "i can't do it" you could say "i can definitely do it" by no means am i an optimist all the time but staying negative will just lead a unfufilling life with sadness and sorrow.

Why should u keep trying the same thing with hope that u will succeed? You should keep trying because by the time u do succeed, it will seem so much more sweet, you feel a sense of achievement, a time when u feel life has purpose and meaning to it.

Answer 6

What is it that you fail at several times ? Surely, it is something that you like to achieve. Then , if the efforts required was enough , you should have achieved it. If not you enjoyed the effort, and now once again enjoy the effort with another attempt. It is the mis-match of expectation and the result that comes as a barrier between you and remaining positive. Instead just accept the fact that the efforts and results have not matched. What ever is needed is to be done, and failure should actually strengthen the resolve to achieve it, by trying with redoubled efforts, and the awareness of the TRUTH that we have now the experience ! That is what positivity is all about !

Answer 7

I wouldn't necessarily say that anyone should keep trying at something they cannot succeed in. At some point, in order to remain a positive person, you have to learn to cut ties with those things that you can't accomplish/control/master or just accept that you may not be the strongest at it but do it for enjoyment or just to get the job done.

It also depends what it is that the person is striving for and it's feasability factor. There is a difference between someone trying to walk after breaking a leg and someone trying to walk on a tightrope from Chicago to Alaska.

So, it is important to be positive about those things that are feasible FOR YOU depending on your situation. Keep trying and learning along the way. It is not the destination, but the trip there that makes life worth it... and drop the things you will never be able to do.

Answer 8

If you have to force yourself to be positive, maybe it's not worth doing. Fooling yourself with catchy little sayings or snippets or "inspiring" stories only prolongs the inevitable doubt. Rather, find something that makes you want to keep trying, no matter the setbacks.

I may never run my mile in 6 minutes. In accepting that, I could sit back on my behind and watch life go by. Instead, I get up at 5 am every morning, and I run in an attempt to stay in shape. Am I motivated by the positive attitude that maybe I'll finally break 6 minutes? Not really. No, I keep myself going by telling myself that this is something that I have chosen to do. That on any given day, I could stop running, and use those hours to catch up on my sleep. Then, I laugh quietly and set off on my run.

Forget God, forget everyone else, forget repetitive proverbs about happiness. Life is a series of decisions you must make on your own of your own free will.

Answer 9

Yes it is indeed said to think positive in life...and i do hv an answer 4 this!
Long back when the Earth was formed...Nostradamus(the very known astronomer whose predictions which were done till 1999 were all true) had predicted and proved that..."In every 24 hrs of a day,one such second is sure when wht u think or say comes true.It can b ne time of the day or night" .So this was when the conclusion was made tht "ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE" who knows it might come true some time or the other!
Another reason is....jst like nobdy has cn GOD...but it is one such inspiration tht helps u or motivates u for the upcoming..Same is wht POSITIVENESS is ...jst a source of inspiration to inspire u for the better in life !!!
Hope u got ur answer!
Adios-Sur

Answer 10

Well, because you will!

It depends how you define failing. Sometimes others are eager to define it for you in their terms. If they pay your bills, are older than you, and you earn less than your age multiplied by a thousand of your local currency, then you might need to think that someday you should be in a position to help them and still be free to have a life.

Or you'll find something even better on the way, by pursuing it with such dedication.

But you won't choose it at random, you'll judge whether it's really worth it. Most people don't. Those who did found that they were totally stuck at some point, and figured out what values mattered to them, because they were who they were!

People already admire you for not wimping out. we are surrounded by people who are doing what they hate. Some of them loved it at first, and are scared to change it.

Pay your own way and do your own thing, and respect and help those who do that. And you'll find it.

Anything is better than the alternative.
Hang in there, it's not for long, after all!

Answer 11

I have found that without my resounding faith that I could do nothing and I will fall every time. I'm not a religious fanatic but I do believe we each have a purpose in life and one of the things that's wrong in our sad world is that people have become so selfish and self centered that others are influenced by them. I must believe in myself and give out good energy to the world. We never know whose life we may save just from being positive. No matter what happens I figure out a way to make it a positive thing, which always is not easy. We also gain a reputation for being the happy person people need to talk to when they are down as we will always have time to listen. There are so many needy people that need good energy that we must be positive to help others. Many people's dreams are shattered every day, but it's those who get back up, dust themselves off, and get back on that horse that make a come back. Walt Disney was told in 5th grade he's never get out of high school, Dr. Seuss sent his first story to almost 300 publishers before one would publish it, Cher has dyslexia and has to have a coach to help teach her lines for TV and movies, and without their positive attitudes, none of them would have ever been discovered. We are the same, for we get discovered in our own minds every time we do something well, but we can't quit just because something didn't work out. We must keep trying in different ways to solve the problem and with a smile and good attitude, it will get solved. If we have a pity party, nothing gets done except I confirm in my own mind how dumb, stupid, and worthless I am and what we believe comes to pass!!!!! No matter our situation, there are ways out of it, and we must become complex problem solvers.