Please read my previous question. since then i have not started my period and i was suppose to have it the wedesday after that happened and i still havn't started and i am afraid i a pregnant with the other guys kid i know this is horrible and my bf is still with me after i told him what happened and he hasn't got me pregnant for 4 years and we never have used protection i did sleep with them both that weekend. Please help
2006-07-26 06:56:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i know i did this to my self and i made a mistake i just need so help to fix my problem
2006-07-26 07:00:59 · update #1
Yes i am keeping it
2006-07-26 07:01:19 · update #2
Well first things first. You need to take a pregnancy test to see if you really are pregnant or if it just stress causing you to be late. There is no need to stress if your not pregnant. Second if you are pregnant then you have two choices you could lie (which I dont recommend because the truth always eventually comes out, especially when a baby is involved.) or you could tell your boyfriend the truth. Tell him how much you love him and that you want to be with him and hope this baby is his. Then you need to tell the other guy that you are pregnat. I think that there is a way to tell paternity before the baby is born you would have to ask your doctor but if not as soon as the baby is born you need to get a paternity test done so that the rightful father is on the certificate.
2006-07-26 07:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't find your first question but the second pretty well explains your delemma. I am now a 52 years young and been there and done that. I am male but don't hold that against me. If you are the person flip flopping between your boyfriend and his buddy, I wrote you the note under Peggy D because we live together and share the puter.
First off, if your boyfriend says, ''Don't worry, we'll get married.'' DON'T. He'll always hold it against you that he may be supporting someone else's child. If he's a drinker, he'll blow up sooner or later. I was forced into a marriage long ago. We'll say "Jane" was and still is a wonderful mother for the three children we have. With the exception she has all three convinced I left her for another woman which is not true. If you choose to live together for a while and see what happens, fine. My experienced opinion would be to cut the rope, find someone who will offer you and your child and future children a secure life.
I saw some of the answers you have already received. I was appalled at the crudeness of some idiots out there that said some pretty painful things to you. BLOW THEM OFF. They are from the lowest form of flesh in the food chain. You know you. You already admit you made a mistake. Deal with it. You will do fine.
2006-07-26 07:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jesses Bud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you. I wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom for you. You are really in a pickle aren't you? You shuld thank God for your boyfriend for still being with you. He must be a gem of a guy. All you can do now is take a pregnancy test and then a dna test to determine who the father is. There is no need tp panic, what's done is done. Learn from your mistake, and try not to repeat it ever. Good luck to you sweetie.
2006-07-26 07:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For crying out loud. I just read your previous question, do you sleep with every one who gives you a complement? Good Lord, needy girls are such loosers. If you are pregnant, (which I hope to hell you are not, I'm sick of paying for everyone elses bastard children, when I don't have any of my own,) Do not even think about keeping that child. You are a slutty Whore, and you'll bring your child up to act just like you. Children learn what they live. You'll just add another generation of welfare whores into the world. GREAT...just GREAT.
2006-07-26 07:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions like this just don't belong on here. People judge too much without knowing your whole situation. Maybe your boyfriend is infertile and knows you really want a baby so he didn't get mad at you for in effect, getting what you wanted. Any way you look at it, this problem is going to be hard to figure out. I suggest you get some counciling.
2006-07-26 07:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by melbel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a pharmacy thats not near your house and get a pregnacy test NOW. if its positive go to ur mom or ur doctor. then discuss it with ur boyfriend. there s no need for anyone else except ur mom and ur doctor to know that u slept with 2 guys. DONT tell ur boyfriend. if u decide to keep it u can find out whose the kid is. i suggest that u dont. u dont want to ruin ur life right now. if u r too shy to tell ur mom call ur doctor. DONT tell ur boyfriend about the other guy and dont say anything about a pregnacy to the other guy unless u r sure u r pregnant.
and for god s sake start using protection or get on the pill.
2006-07-26 07:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by deina1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help from a higher power. Jesus. It sounds like your bf is understanding. I guess you will need a paternity test. Keep in mind that this could get ugly after that baby is born.
2006-07-26 07:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sucks, why would you get yourself into that type of mess. Well take a preggers test and if it comes out negative test again. If not sure then get a blood test from the clinic
2006-07-26 07:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by luciouskitti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really "SCREWED" up. Do you think it's time to grow up a little and take some responsibility? We don't need any more stupid people breeding. My tax dollar is stretched enough as it is. So what exactly is your question? Do you want us to buy you a pregnancy test and show you how to pee on it??
2006-07-26 07:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha Ha. Another dumb pregnant girl for the Maury Povich Paternity " Who is my child's real father" Test.
2006-07-26 07:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋