Now, is that right or that's just a slap on my face? We got into a fight because the fact that I just asked him who is he chatting on line (its been an on-going thing where these girls will just pop on his screen and he will be chatting with them) first of all, I don't know these girls so I asked who are they and then he said JUST friends. We got into a fight the over the weekend and it carried on and yesterday I came home and I found one of his boxer was wet...(from u know what).
Is that okay for him to j/off while/after we are fighting? I found also some porn girls name in the trash can so I know that he is watching porn while j-ing off.
You think he will be offended if i asked him to go with me to buy me a dildo so I can also satisfy myself since he's doing his thing anyways?
2006-07-26 06:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In actuality, this is a question only the two people involved can answer for themselves. The whole chatting on line thing can be perceived either as cheating or simply harmless. That's for you two to decide and agree on, if possible.
It is a fact that men are stimulated visually (breasts, buttocks, etc); women are stimulated by what they hear (favorite song, whispers in her ear, voices, etc).
It is normal for men to masturbate while viewing or thinking of porn. All men have done it at least once in their lifetime. I, for one, do not see anything wrong with it because it's a natural thing to do: it's human nature. Done excessively is a problem, and you have not said that this is the case.
Yes, he did this after fighting with you. It sounds to me that he was just releasing some stress, so to speak. And, as far as your question goes (buying the dildo together and watching you masturbate), some couples actually do do that and find it exhilarating.
This is something you and he have to discuss and come to conclusions with on your own.
2006-07-26 07:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dee M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two don't have a very good relationship. When you enter into a relationship, you have to be completely open, honest, and accepting with each other.This will stop any future problems from popping up.
He is obviously lieing to you about his on-line "friends". Wake up. If him masturbating to other women is not something that you can handle, then you need to leave. You also need to consider that if he isn't being honest to you about his on-line chats, he may be hiding something else.
If this is something that you are willing to accept, then accept it, and drop it. And as far as you getting something of your own, go for it. He should have no problem with that.
2006-07-26 07:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by bme79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is insane i mean??! Watching porn and jerking off?? OMG
Why cant he call you to watch it with him if he likes porn a lot...
Is your sex life good? or does he avoid you? If he avoids you and only watches porn mostly ...than I am sorry but you are into trouble...he is a porn addict.
Its ethically wrong and can be called infidelity... you be stern with him. Tell him its either You or his f***king porn. Tell him in a stern manner that you do not like if he watches porn or chats with strangers. Its is highly unacceptable and you will have to take serious actions if he continues his habbit. If he truly loves you he will stop watching it. If he does not care and does not stop...you know what to do...
2006-07-26 07:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. It sounds like he's pretty obsessed with girls. I don't know about you, but that would bother me. I want my husband to love me and making love to me, not talking dirty with other girls on the internet and "doing his own thing". Doesn't that bother you?
2006-07-26 07:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by operamemartexpo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple resolution.
Disconnect internet service.
If he has withdrawals, then you know he is addicted...get him into therapy, or give it up more often.
All guys spank their monkey at some point. Don't be jealous. Offer to help!
2006-07-26 07:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need help. Stop fighting and satisfy each other.
2006-07-26 07:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he's offended. he apparently does what he wants to do, so do what you want to do. what goes around comes around
2006-07-26 07:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋