why do women rub their breast on you?do they do this on purpose.how should i respond?

Question

i have pondered this answer for a long time. i work with alot of women and this seems to happen often. i really like it when they do it, but i 'm frozen. i don't know whether to press harder into their breast, massage the breast with my arm, or just move my arm. i always just leave my arm where it is. these women must know where their breast are. i would like to here from woman that do this. they would have me arrested if i rubbed my private parts on them.

Answer 1

Whip it out and try it!!! Their reaction will be worth the night in the clink!

Answer 2

Rub Breast

Answer 3

Yes these women know it, and they are aware of what it could be doing to a man. Yes they stick out, but so do our noses, our feet, our butts, our hair, our elbows at times, do we leave these parts to linger? Some don't care they figure they are giving you a little "bonus", some use that to their advantage. The sad awful truth about it is, if you make a joke to them about it or to someone else in your workplace, they could turn and slap a sexual harassment complaint on you to your boss. No the normal person wouldn't do this and they are probably your friends, but someone decides they have a "bone to pick" with you and all bets could be off. So, if you value your job and any future resume reference. Best to keep the workplace professional.

I know I may sound extreme, but I know a guy who had a female friend co-worker, they became really close, when he wanted to just kind of get it back to just business she turned around and filed a complaint against him. It was bogus, his boss new it, everyone there new it. However, because of the laws being the way they are a major investigation had to take place, etc.. Any, needless to say, it was unnecessary, unfair and a bad situation, very unfortunate.

Answer 4

Our breasts do stick out further than our bodies for most of us. Sometimes our calculations are off, when we thought we had room we didn't and that leaves you with getting a free feel by mistake. If the female is aware she would notice and excuse herself for doing so. So maybe there are times when it could be done on purpose but I wouldn't t react physically, if I were you. Just say you're excused, and if she acts clueless just tell her what happened. That should do the trick, trust me I have done it a couple of times and I excused my self. The only person I rub my breasts against is my man, and I may slap him with it just for $hits and giggles, hehe. So don't despair, just excuse the young lady and go on about your day. If the same one does it again, you may have an admirer on your hands, good luck.

Answer 5

Women absolutely know where there breast are at all time. I don't know what to say on how to handle this, if you are respond with the massage thing you might get arrested. I think you have a class action suite for work related sexual abuse, LOL.

Answer 6

Well I don't go up to guys and rub them with my boobs, but when I hug a guy I like I'll hug more with my chest, but not in an obvious way if that makes sense. If I see a stranger that's cute then I'll "accidentally" brush against them with my chest haha. You're probably hot so thats why :)

Answer 7

Some may be flirting. It's the same as when a woman wheres a skirt that is too short, or a blouse that is too revealing. They may give other reasons for doing so, but in all truth, they are flirting.

In fact, denying they are flirting is in itself a flirting tactict. They want to act "hard to get". If they admit they are flirting, the would seem the opposite.

Answer 8

Its their way of flirting. I had an old boss (well not so old) but she was very unattractive. Since I was the new young guy in teh office, everyone knew she had the hots for me. Now, of course she was overweight, but there would be times at office parties when she used to deliberately rub her boobs on me. My friend and I dubbed her as the orangutan. I would simply move away until she got the hint.

Answer 9

Hm, depends.

If you get the feeling that she is genuine, open and play-/joyful towards you, maybe the following strategy might prove effective:

Since you said you enjoy behing hugged by women and feeling their ..., eh, for the sake of conforming to yahoo community guidelines, let´s call em "breasts" here (hell ... I luv it!) ... I would suggest that you not only maximize the physical enjoyment you get out of an encounter of this sort ... cuz it might actually spread to other areas of your body ... but also that you clearly verbally communicate those pleasant feelings towards the woman ... possibly a universal, nonspecific utterance like a mildly suggestive "mmmmmmmmmhhhh" could prove appropriate and effective ... and it might also help to add a huge smile/grin to that ... and DO try that "massage" idea of yours, pls!

If, on the other hand, you get the impression that she wants to turn you on, provoke you to do certain things you might later regret for a number of reasons ... only to get back at you for it later and accuse you of "harassment" (some b..., eh, women actually do that!) ... you might as well act as if those physical attributes she is trying to use/rub on you actually didnt exist at all (however hard "it" might become ... ).

Also, I would be very grateful if you could, in return to my answering your question, answer the following (envious) question of mine: pls tell me in detail, how in the world do you get all these women to do that to you?!?

Answer 10

You are assuming they are doing this on purpose. Boobs stick out, you know. Are we supposed to measure distance and make sure we never touch anyone? If you are trying to squeeze past someone, do you make sure your butt isn't touching anyone? Unless you are positive the touch is deliberate, ignore it. I'd say you have breast issues.

Answer 11

They probably don't mean to do that. Or they might like you. But I wouldn't just confront them with the breast thing. Let them confront you if they really do like you.