2006-07-26 06:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by chitwn70 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pamper her or him, bring flowers, make dinner, take off for a long weekend, pretend you just met and let your imagination fly..........have good s e x.
2006-07-26 06:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by star bright 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Creativity! Thinking outside the box and implementing things yo know about your relationship and the other person. Their likes, dislikes, etc.! Throwing things in that are out of the norm and unpredictable. For example, if it is not normal for the MAN to go all out on cooking a special dinner, complete with candlelight and all that, do it. It will not be expected and will be an interesting contrast to what IS expected due to what is usually the way of things. BE CREATIVE! Do things that are pleasant and not something normally done that show a genuine attempt toward showing the other person a special sort of attention they are not otherwise used to. Doing things like this that are not in your normal character would get the ball rolling. good luck! Hope this works.
2006-07-26 06:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By doing/trying new things! Maybe theres some lil things you ( or your partner) have been curious about...say, what about like once a week ( or once a month, whatever works for ya'll) trying something TOTALLY new. It could be some kinkiness in the bedroom, or a totally dif kind of ethnic food, or a day trip. Just something TOTALLY new! Maybe you could alternate turns, on who decided what to do that time, with the other being open. Even if its not something they would necessarily be "into" but be willing to TRY for the other.Good-Luck!! :)
2006-07-26 06:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We set aside a date night each week. We support each other in our different interests. For example, I will go and watch my husband play softball, and he will come and watch me sing. We treat each other with kindness and respect and are affectionate. We make sex a priority (it's more important than TV or sleep). We have fun together as a couple and as a family. We've been married for 20 years, have 3 children, and are still very much in love.
People often think we are 10 years younger than we are. I think that is because we still behave young and in love. What are those things you did when you were head over heels in love with each other? Do those same things now.
2006-07-26 06:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 9 1/2 yrs and the fire hasnt gone out yet, we enjoy eachother , we love spending time together, we have fun, we go to "special stores" to get the sexy little things to keep things going for us , we also watch those sexy movies as well we always stay open minded and are both very into pleasing eachother , our sex life isnt selfish by any means always remember "what you wont do sexually in your marriage, another one will" so be creative.
2006-07-26 06:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We still love each other so much and keep our sex life great, and sharing plm., any other stuff and talk about this plm and on and on. that how we learn so much. We already learn the past what is like and don't want to have that plm. and we learn to work it out and never feel stop the fire burning. smiling.
2006-07-26 06:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t spend every waking moment together. You need your own space and time apart once in awhile, that way the next time you see her it will make you appreciate and want her all the more. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-07-26 06:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Double 709 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do spontaneous things that are never expected you keep the relationship as fresh as it was when you started by being interested in her life and work, you keep her happy she'll keep you happy and things will go great!
2006-07-26 06:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-26 06:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We talk alot about everything and anything. We lie in bed early in the morning and talk about silly stuff and laugh. My daughter says it sounds like kids in our room. I think after years of being together it gets better and better. Talk to her and listen to what she has to say.....you may be surprised.
2006-07-26 06:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to do the things you use to do when you were tryin to get this person or when dating like still go on date,surprises,flowers and mostly creative idea to spice up your sex life.
2006-07-26 06:47:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋