Gained weight over last couple of years. How do i live with it and trust hubby when he says he loves me.?

Question

He seems not to even notice and acts like Im the most beautiful women hes ever seen. That makes me happy but Im not happy with how I look, and I seem to have lost all my will power. Plus we just love to eat!!!!!! lol I'm not really over weight just out of shape and to the weight I'm use too.

Answer 1

don't care what other people think

Answer 2

I believe that no one should lose or gain weight for someone else, you should do this if you are unhappy with it yourself. I am in the same situation that you are in. I have gained a few pounds here and there since I have gotten married. I have lost a few here lately, but that is by my choice. My husband like yours just says baby your just as beautifull as the day I married you.

I need to take my own advise here. But if you are not happy then you need to do something about it. No one else can.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Well walk for 30 mins a day and you will see a difference. I know I feel the same way you do and I am starting my walking tonight. You should start walking tonight to. I work full time and a full time mom so you can imagine how much time I have for exercise. I want to lay in bed when I have a chance and just munch and pass out. But tonight it's going to change. Good luck

Answer 4

he loves u so much that he not concerned with how u look or your weight u should be happy he is still impressed unless there is someone else u are trying to impress dont worry bout it as long as he loves u that all that matters and your relation ship is A-ok than i would not worry

Answer 5

My husband isn't concern about my weight but I am. It won't matter what your hubby thinks. Until you feel good about yourself then you will always have doubts.

Answer 6

You cant say that you love your husband if your not willing to spend 45 minutes a day to look attractive for him. I hope he divorces you and finds a young hot tramp!!!