Look people I have not stuck my nose in her business. It is something that is going on and I feel for the family right now.
A marriage ending is tough for all people involved. I just hope the coworker made the right decision
2006-07-26 06:00:33 · 13 answers · asked by JenKat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I asked a questin earlier about a woman I know that left her husband and kids for a man she met on myspace.
2006-07-26 06:16:01 · update #1
I worry for the family because through a small town sporting events and school we see the family.
2006-07-26 06:17:11 · update #2
I am just trying to be a good person and all of you are making me feel crappy because I feel for the family.
My husband lived through a nasty divorce and his father actually through the mom out with no money no job and the judge would let her have the kids. He was hurt and hungry for months til his mom came for them. I see it in him everyday the pain that his father caused. I know this because his mother wanted them and didn't want a divorce.
You all talk about passing judgement what are you doing to me????
2006-07-26 06:20:32 · update #3
Be supportive, and know that she will not be herself for a while. It is so hard to go through this, but, if you want to remain friends just listen and be supportive. Try not to say anything bad about her man, just in case they get back together.
2006-07-26 06:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey's gurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are on the outside looking in and don't know what goes on behind their closed doors. I left my husband after 17 years, but no one knows the hell I went through all those years. Now that I am with someone else he tells everyone that I left him for him..... not true, I left him for all the 17 years of infidelity he put me through that I still think about. Can't seem to find an answer for why he did what he did, but I'm happy now and my fiance is great, and you know what, I don't care what people say, they need to get a life if they are commenting or worrying about mine, No one cared when I was home lonely and raising kids by myself. So don't be so quick to judge her, especially when you haven't walked in her shoes. We don't know, he couldn't have been that perfect if she left...........
2006-07-26 17:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by SweetT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concern is one thing when it involves family, friends, or yourself. But you don't even know this woman's story. A lot of marriages end everyday, are you worried about those people too? The best you can do for her is pray. And throw in a little request for forgiveness for yourself for giving in to gossip. Pray that you find something more fullfilling in your life to deal with besides someone else's business.
I am partial to this topic because I recently ended my marriage due to the fact that my husband was secretly doing drugs in my home, and he was very abusive to me and my children. I left immediately and never looked back. I started a relationship with someone shorty after me and my husband split up, and everyone started talking. No one knew what I was going through at home, and no one really cared. I knew that leaving was the best thing to do for me and my children. A lot of rumors got started and most of them were nothing but lies.
My reputation was ruined because of people who never knew the whole story. Please mind your own business. It is not your place to judge anyone.
2006-07-26 13:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that husband need to change not be like his family. I have learned very hard life to change it not to be like my family. and I want tohave a real family and protect my family. Making sure they are happy, place to live etc. and I am so glad I change it. I know some men won't change some do. but You though what right but I am not sure what answer you looking for. Ingore what other people said rubbing your face. They need to grow up and move on and if they don't like to read they can go bother other people.
Do what you think it right. smiling.
2006-07-26 14:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It came through as if you did... Perhaps it's the way you worded it. But I understand your concern for the family. There's probably not much you can do unless you're close to them. Those things happen, unfortunately. IMO, it wouldn't help to treat the woman differently, it would just create unnesessary tension at work.
2006-07-26 13:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your predicament. It is not easy to get involved in other's problem. They should seek proper guidance through counselling. sometime it is beyond everybody hands to help. Cool yourself down. Don't care what other's think. They are merely views and sometime stupid answers.
2006-07-26 13:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Zeuls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel sorry for the kids and the husband but not the woman who left.
2006-07-26 13:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by lynda0322 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell are you talking about? Is this even a question, or are you on your soapbox?
2006-07-26 13:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did what she thought was right - whether you accept that or not doesn't matter.
2006-07-26 13:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing what?
2006-07-26 13:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋