A family friends son met 5yrs ago on phone.We in 2 countries so we are online.I wanted to make good impression first i lied about height,what i look like.He found out he love my height what i looklike.It was to know if he like me for me as i had 2 ops i told him hes there for me,when fathers ill hes there for me.He know who my family friends are.When i go he calls emails chats want me back.Hes in gang so family threw him out.Hes not close to them,his mom wants him to marry rich girl but he wants me.He start saying his friend B(maybe its him) take msgs for him as he works shifts.B emails calls chats ask for intro to my friends.When intro girls they say B talks chats emails about me so i think its my guy.He comes goes in out my life.He tests me by talking badly/ask if i want to sleep with him to know for sure im girl to marry.Weve try many times to part ways.Yrs ago i told him hes like bro to help me move on.Yet we come back into eachothers life.I love him hes there by everything.
2006-07-26 06:00:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Now he talks badly comes in out of my life wont email chat call pretends to be his friend B when he email chat call.We love each other been through alot past yrs.Ive to wait until he decides if he wants to marry me which may take months or years We tried to be with others YET AS MUCH AS WE TRY WE KEEP COMING BACK TO EACH OTHERS LIFE.Please tell me what would u do if u were me.
2006-07-26 06:00:24 · update #1
What you should do is learn how to write and complete a sentence that makes sense.
2006-07-26 06:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you allow your life to be like this with him, it will continue as it is. You should figure out what you want for your own life aside from the relationship with him. He needs a nudge by you in one direction or the other because he isn't behaving as if he's ready for a real adult relationship. He's in a gang and his own family threw him out, which means he's up to no good at this point in his life. He's also playing games with you, if not by pretending to be someone else with you, then at least by trying to manipulate you into having sex with him only to find out if you're the right girl for him. What man with any respect for women would base a decision to marry a girl on the bedroom skills she has acquired throughout her previous relationships? Make up your mind about what you feel is necessary in a relationship and then give him an ultimatum. Stick with it out of self respect, even if it means ending the relationship.
2006-07-26 13:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u told us and tell him it's not right to break up again and again if he truely loves u he will want to get married unless he is scared or somethin like that ask him if he is afraid of getting married and that u really love him so u will wait but if he breaks up with u again forget him and move on !
2006-07-26 16:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly feel this way then try to make it work tell him how you feel and how all of this is affecting you if he really loves you he will listen and try to fix the problem if he doesn't leave him no man is worth this much pain
2006-07-26 13:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by black_rose8666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋