Should I once and for all just trash this relationship? OK the problem is my daughter-as soon as she ----?

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got married and even before she did not want a relationship with me unless she could control--Her husband wants her to only see and have anything to do with his familly!!! Since it has been this way for a while-I have gotten to the point that even though I love I don't like her at all--I haven't slept for 2 nights because of her mouth--she likes to talk and try to be sure that my sons don't care to even get intouch with me. I have not seen my youngest son since he was 15--Please explain why the things that are so important to us are the hardest to deal with!! My Mother died when I was 12-yes I was real pissed off at her and even God! She was all their was in my life at the time! To make a long story short I then liven with my 5 different brothers and sisters and my teenage were hell--AND SINCE AGE IS MENTIONED HERE alot I am at the ripe old age of 58!! But maybe some of you who are still young enough can give me some advise--so please try to with abuseing ME as I really do care-U

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Wow, honey, I really feel for you.
I can feel the pain you are dealing with.

I have a couple of suggestions:
1) Always keep the door open with your kids, even if you aren't having much or any contact with them for a time.
2) Find a good counselor to help you deal with your issues, both past and present. This will be extremely beneficial to you. If one counselor isn;t a good fit with your needs or personality, try another. If money is an issue, call local mental health clinic or social services and ask where counseling is available.

I wish you all the best.
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