Now that we are engaged I fell like little things are becoming bigger issues. The thought that we must correct things or be stuck with it for life is always in the back of my mind. All of a sudden my whole life is changing. Buying a new house, talking about kids, the inlaws in my face.....is this normal?
2006-07-26 05:57:08 · 3 answers · asked by artpuppet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some of it is normal... Your routines are merging, and there's bound to be tension. You're testing each other's boundaries. Don't let it get out of hand tho, keep it civil. If there's a specific problem, address it rationally. (I know - easier said than done!) :) And don't lose sight of all the good things.
2006-07-26 06:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal feelings.. However, any problems or issues you have now will only become a bigger deal once you are married. Try to settle them now. Especially inlaw issues. If you accept the inlaw issues now and try to address them once you are married, it will seem like you are being a trouble maker because you are the wife now. The first thing said will be that you never had a problem with it before so why is it a big deal now. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 06:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by reneelost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also keep in mind that any problems while not married amplify 10000 times when you are married.
2006-07-26 06:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋