doesnot want to shave her pubics from her vagina and als she doesnot want to swallow my C U M M and also she doesnot want to have Anal sex , is it coz she doesnot love me ?
2006-07-26 05:56:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe it's not always about you. What do you do for your wife? My guess is nothing.
2006-07-26 07:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are people who have done those things and have not loved the person they have done it with, so I don't think it's because she doesn't love you. It depends on how she feels and is she comfortable doing these things. She may not be a sexual explorer.
It's uncomfortable for a woman when the pubes grow back. It itches and the woman would look odd scratching herself or dancing around to get the feelig to stop. This can last for days until they fully grow back.
Depending on the man but C U M M can taste horrible and make a person puke. You don't want her throwing up on you, do you? If you do try buy those flavored gels they sell at adult stores.
Anal sex hurts, especially if the person has not done it before. For some women this is unnatural so the idea of the penis entering a colon does not work. Her mind is feeling more the pain and doesn't relax the body. Use a lot lubricant if she allows you to the first time.
I recommend you speak to your wife and explain to her how you feel and to at least give a try. If she doesn't like it than respect her wishes and do not push the subject. This can cause a big strain on your marriage. Good luck!
2006-07-26 13:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by awhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally I don't understand any of it.
It does not mean she doesn't love you however...it are a few tips.
1)shaving the pubes....I find pubic hair repulsive, I shave mine and keep it smooth all the time. Some women don't like it because it's not "natural", maybe she could leave a small patch, or landing strip. Some razors hurt to use them, the best I have found is the "Schick Quattro", mens razors generally work better for that them womens because they are made to cut coarse hair, women's razors are not designed for the coarse hair. Also skintimate makes a underarm/bikini shaving cream, the two of those combined with some HOT water...will make it not so bad, the hot water helps with the "razor bumps"...of course she'll want to make sure she trims as much off as she possibly can with the scissors first. Maybe you should offer to do it for her...maybe she's just not comfortable with the sharp object down there. If oral sex is something she loves tell her you'll do it more if it's shaven...and DO IT!!! don't make empty promises....when she does shave it give her a licking like she's never had...
2) ***...maybe she's had a negative experience with ***, maybe she doesn't like the way yours taste....I've always heard the things you eat affect the taste of your ***...onions and peppers, spicy , salty, garlic foods will make it taste nasty...where if you eat sweet things, I've heard pineapple juice is a good sweet thing that will make it taste better. My fiance' as any many loves it when I swallow for him, he tells me when he's getting ready to and I put it in my mouth as far as I can where his head is at my throat so it runs down my throat and I never taste it...maybe that will help you guys 1) she's swallowing and 2) she's not tasting it.
3) anal sex: Anal sex is not meant for everybody...some people see it as taboo. Maybe when you're playing and she's REALLY wet you can start out with just a finger tip and see how she reacts..or just putting pressure on it....that will let you see how she's goign to react...if she likes she may invite for more...take it slow....make sure that area is always well lubed no matter what you are using...just respect her boundaries...
Well hope this all helps.
happy sexin'
2006-07-26 14:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by David S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would base weather or not she loves you on just that. It sounds like she does not share the same sexual taste as you do though. THAT can be a problem. Does she explain why she doesn't want to do this stuff? Has she done it in the past and now stopped? Swallowing is something she likes or something she detests...if she doesn't like it then asking her to do it all the time will make her pull back even more. Anal again is something you either like or hate or are afraid to try.Those are both things that I believe are just sexual preferences and does not determine love. And well the pubic hair thing I dunno know about that one ...that's just a grooming thing.
2006-07-26 13:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I think a clean work space is important. You might want to mention that to your wife. She shaves, you will camp out between her legs.
2. No one should be forced to swallow another person's body fluids unless they want to. Get over that one.
3. Anal sex - it is an exit, not an entrance. There are some that enjoy anal sex, your wife is not one of them. Get over that too.
I am sure that if you are truly married, taht your wife loves you very much.
2006-07-26 13:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has NOTHING to do with loving you. Number one, after shaving such a tender area IS painful. Itching and burning to say the least. Swallowing is just sick, plain and simple. Anal sex hurts like hell. Let her take something and stick it up your *** and see how it feels. You will KNOW why she says NO!
2006-07-26 14:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pubs she could consider *** is gross and anal hurts you are being inconsiderate actually an a**
2006-07-26 13:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-07-26 13:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by snide64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ding, Ding, Ding......we have a winner!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 13:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by westcrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋