Weve been together for almost 3 yrs, and i'm 21. We only broke up 1 time and it was only for 2 months. We talk to our friends and other associates sayin remarks like "yeh i'm married", or "i have to ask my wife/husband, first" BUT no ring....it could be the factor of we are still lookin for a suitable home, for our 2yr old girl, or when we broke up i slept with someone else (I told him) and he doesnt trust me yet. We love each other alot, in front and behind close doors...what is up with this????
2006-07-26 05:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by LilBabyMa101604 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good lord, you're only 21! C'mon, wait a while. My wife and I had a son when we were 18 and got married at 23 and are still married, but don't rush it. It's not a good idea to try to fix one mistake with another. If it's going to hapen let it happen.
2006-07-26 05:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by GS1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he wants your relationship to grow some more or probably isnt ready for such a big commitment. Not saying he's not committed to u already but when ur together there is much more than just huging and kissing, and oooh baby kind of things.. if your relationship is so luvy dovy kinda thing then u shouldnt get married cause relationships like that aget too sensitive and its a complete waist of time. If your relationship is otherwise then i dont see the problem... but issues like this shiouldnt have to be rushed.. if he doesnt want to get married now he doesnt have tooo. I think if u push it any further or wonder about then u'll bump into issues. and on the other hand especially since u guys broke up already thats a major sign not to take him back.. if he loved u like he said from the begining he would have never left u or u left him... so why waist ur time haveing to worry about if he's going to marry u or not. Relationships like this can easily fall apart, and can be fix for a day and then be broken again.. a chain that has been broken once wont be as strong when its broken again. therefore this situation is out of the question.. if u continue this curiosity then u believe he doesnt love u the way u think he's suppose to love u.. and by the way if he wanted to marry u, he would have married u a long time ago.. i know u guys are still young.. u guys have lives yet still to develope.. and young couples often fight more than mature adults. And this marriage thing shouldnt have to be thought about in one day.. why dont you guys sit down over coffee in the morning and talk about it... and see what he has to say. I wish you the best of luck.. and im only being striaght foward with u, u ask a question and i answered it truthfully and i hope it reaches u in a good situation.
2006-07-26 06:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan Dudhnath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you force him to marry you it will come up in a fight about how he never wanted to. I would wait. You broke up for only two months but that was enough time for you to sleep with someone. If I was him I would wait too. I am not saying you are a bad person or anything but give him time.
2006-07-26 05:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by La Dee Da 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush him. Dont' put pressure on him either. When he's ready, he'll ask. Or just start a conversation about it, see how he feels. If he doesnt trust you maybe you two shouldnt be together
2006-07-26 05:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is no longer the church that sanctifies a marriage. as quickly as the marriage vow exchange into broken via the Mr.and new Mrs. the two one in all them grew to alter into one and severed the vow of the 1st marriage . the criminal decree of divorce that the government or Ceasar has issued and God demands ends that first marriage what view the church has on it at this factor is their very own. Scriptural grounds on the dissolution of the 1st marriage is binding to the two events and now that there is a clean marriage Mr and Mrs.they're one flesh and to disolve which would be a contravention of yet yet another vow for the hot Mrs and Mr. As they could be held in charge for any attempt to break this vow.merely as David the consequence of a sin could final a existence time. Forgiveness is a possibility with God however the top consequence could be the comparable. That actuality that there is a criminal decree substantiates the reality that there exchange into no forgiveness on someones behalf and the single exchange into brushed off via regulation,scripturally. the 2d spouse is the criminal and scriptural spouse of a adulterer of the 1st marriage and He needs to readjust his questioning in the past he repeats the comparable mistake two times. that's merely too previous due for 2d concepts with regard to the 1st spouse. God is originator of marriage and his regulations and theory are those we could seek for to be in cohesion with. Mr exchange into no longer loose to remarry scripturally till the 1st Mrs exchange into the guy who divorced him on scriptural grounds. If Mr divorced the 1st Mrs. he exchange into no longer loose to remarry devoid of being the reason for yet another turning out to be an adulterer.He had no scriptural grounds as he exchange into the in charge companion. it quite is previous and forgiveness is left for Gods no longer guy.
2016-11-03 01:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for him to ask you. Mabe he just an-it ready. My sister rushed her boyfriend into marrying her and now she is divorced with 2 kids and she is struggling. So just Wait and mabe he will ask you. but if it goes past 3 yrs and he don't ask you confront him and ask him whats taking so long.
2006-07-26 06:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why don't you ask him whats keeping the wedding bells from ringing? He should give you an answer and if he does't or beats around, repost this question.
2006-07-26 05:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS VERY MUCH LIKE MINE, WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5YEARS AND NOT MARRIED OR ENGAGED BUT WE TELL EVERYBODY WE ARE. DONT RUSH HIM CAUSE IT WILL RUN HIM OFF HE WILL ASK WHEN HE READY TRUST AND BELIEVE, IF HE DIDNT WANT YOU, YOU WOULDNT BE GOING ON 4YEARS, SO IF YOU GUYS LOVE EACH OTHER FOR REAL JUST WAIT DONT RUSH IT WILL COME SOONER OR LATER.
2006-07-26 05:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by shaken_04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just not the right time. Don't rush him or you could take the chance on pushing him away.
2006-07-26 05:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be patient. you have to earn his trust.and sometimes people have to take time to get over things like that.
2006-07-26 05:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by bttrfly3girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋