he is 18 years older then me , he said start looking for a dad , then he siad i have been threw this already,then he siad get a abortion, i ask if he wants me , he said not for now i want to be alone for now,
2006-07-26 05:36:38 · 3 answers · asked by elizabeth s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Unfortunately, you made a BAD decision with this guy. He has gotten you 'in trouble' and he doesn't seem to care. It's obvious that he won't do anything to help you, and perhaps (especially if you are young - like under 25) you may want to consider an abortion. By having a baby with a no-show daddy, you will be setting yourself up for a life of hardship.
Most importantly: DON'T THINK THAT HAVING HIS BABY WILL KEEP HIM!! This is lying to yourself and if you have this kid you will have to think about raising a good person, and family struggle will be bad for the child.
Think about it: this guy already has kids...he obviously doesn't wear condoms, does he? He has ALREADY shown NO respect for you - you should cut him off immediately (he's useless anyhow) and think about your own well-being.
In the future, ALWAYS make sure your man uses birth control, like condoms. OR, you should go on the Pill, although this won't protect you against STD's. HAVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF!! This is a BIG DEAL and can affect the rest of your life.
2006-07-26 05:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 05:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he was simply only using you for sex and now that you are going to have his baby, he no longer needs you. You should have the baby, do a DNA test and then sue him for child support. he should have thought about the consequences when you all slept together.
2006-07-26 05:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋