should i commit suicide now?

Question

what can make someone wanna commit a suicide ?

rahaf
3 minutes ago

well having a bad childhood or someone u love just broke your heart or when u feel so deprest lots of things make u want to commit a suicide

carly f
11 seconds ago

this is the question someone asked in yahoo answers, and this is the answer someone gave to the question. the situation described in the answer, that is, bad childhood, the person i love most has given me worst pain i could ever imagine, everything is going out of my hand, suddenly i've become so lonely... i cannot take it anymore, i am 21 years old, in last two semesters, my grades declined drastically, i just cannot take it anymore

should i die now?

Answer 1

You're gonna die anyway. What's the rush.
Aren't there any other things you'd like to do?
Try pouring your heart out to a therapist. Maybe an antidepressant would help.

Answer 2

Commit "a" suicide? Is that like buy "a" coke, go for "a" swim, pick "a" flower? If you kill yourself, it is all over! There's no more second chances. Please keep plugging away at life. Do something good for your neighbors or friends. Be polite and positive to all you come into contact.

I read a story once about a man who had a problem with his heart and decided to just run until his heart gave out and he would die. Every day he would run a little farther and eventually he found he was feeling less and less depressed. The point is that if you exercise, eat properly and keep a possitive happy attitude, you can turn your life around. I hope you will try this!

As a Christian, I would suggest learning about Jesus and allowing Him to guide your life via the teachings of the Bible. The Bible can provide much needed encouragement in this wild and crazy world in which we live.

I will be glad to recommend a site for studing via on line videos if you contact me.

Think about life today! Death will come soon enough.

Answer 3

Suicide is not the answer! Like I just told somebody else on another question, it is a permanent solution to a temporary situation. It will leave family, friends, co-workers, others in your life, devastated and suffering and asking 'why' for the rest of their lives!!

Nothing is ever as bad as it appears to be. Suicide is the act of a person who is not thinking clearly...and cannot be reversed!!

Everybody has a reason (s) to live whether they believe that or not. Bad childhood, broken heart, whatever...none of those are reason enough to end it all.

Call a suicide hotline or mental health organization.

There are people out there who love and care for you. Value yourself enough to want to live. There is a reason we were all put here. Maybe you haven't found yours yet, but I'm betting that you will.

Answer 4

It may not show, but may of us have had bad childhoods, some worst than others. Loosing someone special and the college grades thing...... happens all the time.

But trust me... Life goes on. The world doesn't stop. Everyone gets through it. You just have to find an outlet, good friends, or a support group to get you through the hard times.

Don't feel pitty on yourself. What helped for me is have the "I don't give a sh*t attitude" and live life day to day and have fun. I got through college fine and have a job. It ALWAYS works its self out.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

Your view of the world is being clouded by your overreaction to the inevitable stumbling blocks that we all have to endure in our lives. Grades are important but not that meaningful in the greater scheme of things. Loss- of a loved one, a pet, or a favorite possession is part of living and something we all have to cope with. We are all a part of a very big and complicated world, and can learn and grow from everything that happens around us, good or not so good. I am not totally against suicide. Don't you want to see what happens tomorrow? 10 years from now? I'm 51
years old and just completed scuba lessons with my 10 year old. You are just beginning to see what life has to offer but you must realize that good things come at all ages. I'm kicking myself in the *** for all the years I wasted not scuba diving. Find something you like and go for it! DO NOT depend on others for your happiness, for it must ultimately come from within. Do not be in a hurry, but don't waste too much time either. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Honey I think U should go somewhere and get some help NOW. U have some serious issues, nothing should make u want to harm urself. just think of it this way....there is someone out there with problems bigger than urs. U have to love urself and put urself first. U cannot change someone else but U can deffinitely make new and better choices for urself. Don't blame urself for something they have done to U just clear away from them and know they r no good for U. I hope ur not seriously thinking of killing urself, please go to the nearest hospital and get some help for depression or whatever they think is best for U....GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

Take it from someone who has tried...even if you do try to do it if you are meant to be alive you won't die but instead you will be in a lot of physical pain.

I tried when my first love left me and I couldn't bare to be without him. I tried to hang myself but I passed out and when I woke the cord I used was untied (*note my door was double locked and my room was 2 stories from the floor with locked windows). So fate needed me alive and here I am.

I could tell you nothing is worth dying over but I'd just be lying to myself and be a hypocrit. So I'll just tell you this - Think long and hard about the reason and if it's a guy would he want you dead?

Answer 8

so what ur grades went down, so what u lost a boyfriend, so what u are lonely, these are all things that happen in life.. i mean i could see if u lost both legs n arms n u was in serious pain all the time then id say yes..but u r complainin about things u can change..i mean omg ur grades suck ( so what as long as u try) so what ur boyfriend left u (there is 10000000000 more out there), im mean ur 21 its time for u to meet new ppl, go to partas, date alot, change ur hair, move around, explore the world.. i mean u could be me who has bipolar disorder with anger and anxioty n chronic pelvic pain which hurts all the time in my lower left side all the way down my leg, i mean i also have OCD so if things r moved n not spotless then i freak out.. i mean come on how does ur crap compare to mine...? it doesnt so shut up.. take a freakn break, regroup, n have some fun. stop stressin out so damn much!!!! b4 i kick her butt...btw i hope this helps u out bc ur life is a gift and i hope i have shown u how petty ur problems really r compared to mine n i am still alive. and so should u be.

Answer 9

Lots of people have bad childhoods, but choose not to let that ruin their lives. We also do not whimp out when someone does something that hurts us.

You are so young, and have so much ahead of you. You have given your power to other people and now you are hurtuing. You are only lonely because you expect others to make you happy.

You need to pick your chin up and bury yourself in your studies. Try to maintain a 4.0 GPA. At your age, that is quite an accomplishment! Trust me, you will never regret that....

Master a craft/sport/pasttime. Teach others how to. Share your skills. Giving is so fulfilling.

Try to do new things. Take on new adventures. I promise that you will discover your hidden talents if you challenge yourself.

Learn tai-chi or do yoga. It may look and sound dumb, but "you must learn to focus, young grasshopper!"

With each accomplishment, you wil feel more validated and fulfilled. You cannot ever expect someone else to make you happy.

If you make yourself happy, you will be more attractive to others who will want to share that with you.

Answer 10

no way............u came 2 this beautiful world not out of ur wish, and u have no right 2 think when u need 2 go frm this place.death should come on its own accord.accually speaking the life is 2 short.keep ur mind always cool.if u dun get gud marks think that the marks has lost its luck by not comming 2 u.if ur boy frnd leaves u think that he is the worst creature who does not deserve ur love.be happy always with a smile on ur face it will do more gud.

Answer 11

Suicide is never the answer. I was there 20 years ago, when I was 15. I've had friends and family members kill themselves and leave behind unbelievable pain for friends and loved ones. It's not worth it. Please check out the links below for crisis-hotline numbers and for a little bit about my own struggle. I'm praying for you.