Most fertile days???

Question

I have just gotten my period last night it will last 3 -4 days.
When am I most fertile when should I have sex? and how many times.
How soon after can you take a test?
I don't have a regulat cycle the last time I had my period was June 17-20 and before that it was Dec. 19-23.
We have been having unprotected sex for almost 2 years now I still haven't got pregnant

Answer 1

If it's been more than a year, you should go in to see a fertility expert, especially if there is a six month gap between your periods. Amenorrhea (absence of menstruation) is a symptom of a lot of hormonal imbalances, including polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS). Most of these are treatable, but you are going to need the help of a fertility specialist to get it. So please, request a referral and start the road. I know it can be difficult, but at least it can be treatable. Good luck and God bless! :)

Answer 2

It all depends on when you ovulate- and every woman is different. Usually it is around day 14 (Day one being when you start your period), but since you have such irregular cycles it is hard to say. You really should chart your temperatures to get an idea of exactly when you ovulate, the length of your cycle, etc. There is a great book that explains ALL of this- "Taking Charge of your Fertility" it will help you predict more closely when you are most fertile.

It takes more than just ovulation to get pregnant, you also have to have the right cervical mucous to help the sperm travel up through the cervix and meet the egg. You can check your discharge and see when you get an "Egg-White Cervical Mucous" - it is the consistancy of egg whites and will be very strietchy when you put it between your fingers. Your cervix should also be open and low, you can check your cervix daily and start to notice when it is low.

You can start testing 10 days after ovulation, but it might be negative for several days even if you are pregnant, so keep testing until you get your period. Even if you are a few days late for your period it still might show negative.

Answer 3

This whole generation is a joke. You know what, if you guys want to nail girls in a spur of the moment, go right ahead. See how far it gets you. Sorry for having morals, and not being an animal. Seems to be the going rate around here. Have funs with your kids, and STD's. But to tell ya' the truth, I doubt any of you are getting laid in the first place. Why? Because a guy who actually does get laid, doesn't have to kiss and tell. Least off all, on the INTERNET! You guys really need to get lives. I can't believe I've even contributed to this garbage. I must be in need of a life of my own, just on the basis of sharing my thoughts with you morons. Have fun bragging to each other about how many sluts in you banged in under 2 minutes. I'm sure it is a great experience for all of you.Look I don't care what you do. Go ahead, bang away at those skeezers. Myself, I don't think it is a good idea to do so. How well could you possibly know a girl after 2 hours? Enough to sleep with her? This is the point I'm trying to get across. What these people seem to not understand is, is that you are sharing your body with someone when you have sex. Plenty of bad things could happen when you do this. How much thought could you possibly give this in what, 2 hours? Oh, and butterflylover, I'm quite capable of speaking on my own behalf. I appreciate the help, but I'm not in any real need of it, so thanks, but no thanks. So as of Jul 26, 2006 do what ya' want. You wanna bang sluts after 10 minutes, go right ahead. When you wake up the next morning pissing out razorblades, just remember I told ya' so.

Answer 4

I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND WITH ALL THREE I USED THIS INFO. THAT MY FEMALE DOCTOR TOLD ME ABOUT. MY CHILDREN ARE 15 7 AND 7 MONTHS. YOU ARE MOST FERTILE AND OVULATING FOR ONLY 24 HOURS ON THE 16TH DAY AFTER YOUR CYCLE STARTS.COUNT YOUR VERY FIRST DAY OF YOUR CYCLE AND THEN ON THE 16TH DAY YOU WILL BE IN OVULATION.YOU CAN GET YOUR DOCTOR TO GIVE YOU AN OVULATION CHART AND DAILY BEFORE YOU GET UP OUT OF BED CHECK YOUR TEMP. AND WHEN YOU SEE A SUDDEN RISE IN YOUR TEMP. YOU WILL KNOW THAT THIS IS YOUR DAY. GOOD LUCK...

Answer 5

hi sorry to hear you are having trouble best time is the first two weeks after your period has finished i had problems trying for my first child we tryed for nearly 2 yrs until i read in a book that the most fertile time is 2 wks after your period stops we had it everyday for 2 wks and it worked we had a lovely baby boy gd luck also maybe you should is your docs about it and discuss u irregular periods

Answer 6

YOU REALLY NEED TO GO TO YOUR DOCTOR TELL THEM YOU HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR TWO YEARS AND THAT YOU WANNA GET A HYSTEROSALPINOGRAM...IT IS WHERE THEY INJECT A DYE IN TO YOU TO SEE IF YOU TUBES ARE BLOCKED, SOMETIMES THEY SAY THE DYE ACTUALLY HELPS UNBLOCK THEM...YOU ALSO MIGHT WANT TO TRY AND CHART YOUR TEMPS AND CERVICAL MUCUS...BECAUSE YOU GET YOUR PERIOD SO RANDOMLY BUYING OVULATION PREDICTOR KITS WOULD BE A WASTE ON $$$ YOUR DOC CAN HELP YOU A LOT AND IF THEY WONT TRY AND FIND A NEW DOC...EVENTUALLY YOU'LL GET PREGNANT, AS FOR NOW THINK OF ALL THE FUN YOU CAN HAVE TRYING

GOOD LUCK!!!! MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU!!!!

Answer 7

14Th to 21st days before next menses date ,calculate,not difficult,Have sex with only one & same person on the calculated dates. It will solve your problem.

Answer 8

I have the same question.