i havent got along with her for years mind u she's never came to my face and started talking S*it but she'll make slick comments and i let alot of sh*t slide b/c i have kids and dont want to get in trouble but its to the point were im willing to risk it b/c she just wont stop and i know its b/c she thinks im scared of her (not hardly) she's 29 lives at home with momma and dont have s*it probably never will mind u im 22 have my own house, car, i have a good job all of things she dont so u can see why she's so jealous. its just im so tired of her i feel like im goin to blow up on the inside from holding so much in and its like she's asking for me to knock her *** out so should i give her what she's asking for or leave it alone? but remember a person can only take so much and its not about fighting it just seems that's the only way she'll leave me alone so what do u think?
2006-07-26 05:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by whyte_choclate13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do the mature thing & drop it. not the hammer, i mean, the issue. she's 29 & talkin ish like an immature teenager, let her be one. just dont succumb to your frustration in a violent manner. think about, you got it made better than she does. you got the kids, house, car, job...she's got her mom. so dont blow up. she just might give up on you if you dont respond
2006-07-26 05:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting with her would be stooping below a minimal level of self respect, to say the very least, and it's not certain that she would stop anyway. The only thing you can do for certain is to change the way you think about it. Feel sorry for her for being so insecure that she has to badmouth you to make herself feel good. Don't let her insecurity affect you. If she hits you, that's another story, but it's best not to encourage her to do so.
2006-07-26 12:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already sounds stupid,so make her feel even more dumb talk Loud around her about your home and car and responsibilty that you have then kick the snott out of her.If she calls the cops and you have never been in trouble before it will be like a 50 dollar fine and unsupervised probation so it better be worth it.
2006-07-26 12:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.answer all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock her a$$ into next week ,before u let her go any farther,and if i was u i would let my kids see,well...not so sure about that last comment ,but,i would still knock her lilly a$$ into next week.
2006-07-26 12:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore her, she is baiting you and hoping you will do something...If you do she wins, you lose and you may lose you kiddo in the process
2006-07-26 12:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋