How can I make my husband last longer in bed? He's fantastic, but I need longer... what about viagra?

Question

I have tried many many things, and this has gone on for years. I have tried toys, doing it often (but how often can you do it when there is nothing there?), and I have come straight out and asked him what can I do to help you last longer. Don't get me wrong I love my husband for more than just sex, I just want to enjoy that too. I don't get it though, I have been with other partners before we were married and none of them could last very long either. We timed my husband once because he didn't believe me when I said he took only a few minutes, it turned out to be 2 minutes that time, no kidding. I'm just frustrated...

Answer 1

get on top and ride him as usual, then after the 1 minute mark slap hilml hard across the head or face. that will shock him and make him forget about ejaculating, keep doing it until u are done...
keep some ice handy though. he may get a headache afterr that...

Answer 2

Does he Masturbate? Tell him to do that and practice control so he can tell when the best time to hold back is before it's too late.

Wait 20 to 30 minutes afterwards and go at it again. Most men need a small breather but the later session should last longer.

Look in drug stores or some sex shops for desensitizing cream. It is sort of a numbing gel you can rub into the skin (during foreplay) and then it will lower the sensitivity so he will last longer.

It could be you. You may have strong muscles in that region (think kegal exersises) so you may need to concentrate on not using them until near the end if you can.

Answer 3

I noticed that with my hubby and i noticed the less often the shorter the time got so try every day and if possible more then once also try foreplay! sometimes the longer he stays stimulated and not "pleasured" the longer they last also "pleasure" him hand job . or oral about 20 to 30 mins before! this also has been none to help he will go limb but after that 20-30 mins he will be able to get hard again so in that time he can be giving you oral and all that fun stuff

Answer 4

You need to go on top and control the situation. If you both give each other oral before this will help him as he wont be so sensitive during the second helpings! I wouldnt use Viagra though as this can have and cause all sorts of problems.

Answer 5

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It explains how to end premature ejaculation for good. It’s basically a blueprint on how to develop natural control over your ejaculation. It actually reprograms your ejaculatory reflex so that you last longer without even trying.

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Answer 6

You can try pills, if you like.
You could also ask your husband to think about things like;
his favourite sport,
doing paperwork,
anything until you give him the sign, you are ready.
Perhaps if you both spent a lot of time with foreplay, this may help you achieve quicker results.
Good Luck!

Answer 7

Viagra has known side effects. Two of these are causing heart attacks and strokes. Your husband must seek medical advice before trying any medicinal remedy.

Answer 8

Have you tried oral first? Try that about a half an hour before and he will last longer for round 2. That's my secret. I get at least a half an hour, not including fourplay!

Answer 9

Male Sexual Endurance: A Man's Book About Ejaculatory Control.

Buy it at Amazon, lots of great ideas and exercises to train him for endurance. Takes time and support.

Answer 10

first of all, he got so used to masturbating that now he cannot last long enough to satisfy you. Let him touch you more, have him use his fingers (like masturbating you) and then while having sex he feels like comming tell him not to. Let him pull out and discharge a little and keep going. And tell him to stop jerking off!!!!!

Answer 11

You should try oral sex before you get together in the real game. Let him pamper you and lick you...you will get your satisfaction. And while you're having sex, when you feel that he'll get an orgasm, stop doing it for a moment...then continue...then stop it...then continue...and you do this for couple of times...in the end, he will explode! :-)