there was a girl who vowed me to marry me two years ago after two years her Family didnt allow us to Marry,and she left me and said she cant leave her Family and that She has promised her family to forget me,but she had promised me hat she will never leave me too,whats difference between this promise and that one?
2006-07-26 05:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by morymlm 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Well, if she lives with her family, she knows she will always have a home. They are her family and she has been with them her entire life. Over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. If things didn't work out with the 2 of you and she had married you against her family's wishes she would be left with nothing and no one.
2006-07-26 05:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The difference is that the promise made to her family seems to have been more important to her, than the one made to you. She has a very close bond with her family, and cares a lot for their feelings than her feelings for you, or her happiness may not have been really important at that particular time. Its pressure, and she got bowed down to the pressure, which shows that her love for you wasnt really strong enough to have kept her promise with you, and ofcourse, which she should not have made in the first place (the promise to marry you, that is). And on another thought, what if she was just using her 'family's' name to break up with you or something ? I dont know, but its time for you to move on.
Arent you glad that you got rid of someone who didnt keep her promise with you ? Its sad, but face the fact, like everyone, parents/family are a very important part of you, its where you come from, your entire identity....and obviously she chose to keep her promise with her family. But then I do feel sad that she led you on for two years, when she knew that her family would object which again shows that she was just having a good time.
Move on..iam sure you'd meet someone better, and good luck!
2006-07-26 12:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference: one was before and one was after. one is relationship love and one is family love. relationships can be easily destroyed, while family love has been with you since forever, for most people.
the emotions and feelings she had when she promised you 2 years ago and what she feels now about that promise is different.
it's clear the placing you have in her heart, if she chooses to keep the promise made to her family, and forget yours.
2006-07-26 12:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by disillusioned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change their minds and it is better in the long run that she didn't marry you as opposed to marrying you, getting a house, and having two kids and then leaving ten years down the road 'to find herself'.
2006-07-26 12:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must really need her parents, for money, place to come home to if needed, however a promise is a promies and if she can break a promise that easy, maybe she has no morals either.
maybe it best you move on.
2006-07-26 12:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by edwin y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesnt really want you or she would have picked you over them.
2006-07-26 12:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are like this only
2006-07-28 08:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people lie
2006-07-30 07:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋