is there anything wrong with my appearance? what do i need to change? to look better?

Question

I am very unsecure about myself, I'm always trying to find ways to look better and I can't seem to be happy with myself. What should I do?

Answer 1

hey!!comeonn...u luk awesome....
if u come to a place like india...
ppl are gona literaly drool over u!
gr8 features..u dont need to be insecure
however i would advice a little bit of mascara and kajal over ur face

Answer 2

I think you have answered your own question: "I am very unsecure about myself.." The fact that your unsecure about yourself doesn't come from your appearance, it comes from your heart and your brain. I don't think there is nothing wrong with your appearance, at least not in a way that you should feel uncomfortable with yourself. Don't be obssessed with finding ways to look better, start exploring things that make you feel good generally, that make you healthier and feeling good about yourself.
But, concerning appearance, do you know what always helps me to feel better and to look prettier? Pampering myself! I just take some time for myself, every night and every morning. Find a good face-cream, a nice perfume, a good-shampoo,...and pamper yourself whenever you can!

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with you except the way that you think/feel about yourself. All you really need is to learn how to accept yourself as you are - beautiful... body, mind and spirit. Nothing else should ever change. Try this: every time you pass a mirror, find something that you like about yourself (even if it's your eyes). Tell yourself out loud that whatever you have is beautiful: "My eyes are beautiful." Then follow that with a statement about yourself: "I am a beautiful person."

It takes a while, depending on how down you really are about yourself. It took me two-three weeks at least! Still, if you are diligent, it does work. Every time you have a negative thought, write it down and replace it with something more positive. Then burn the negative thought that you wrote.

Once you learn to love yourself, you won't be so insecure. There will be times that you might revert back to the negative and allow the insecure thoughts to creep in, but don't waste your time and energy on them. Just find a positive thought and go on with your life.

Answer 4

I guess just do the best with what you have. I saw your pics, you look attractive to me. You have a fiance, and he is a handsome guy. He obviously think's you're attractive.

But I understand, we pretty people don't have it as easy as some people seem to think!

Ciao, Jack

Answer 5

aw theres nothing wrong with you theres plenty of women out there that wished they looked like that dont you worry about your appearance you look fine to me were always looking for ways to look better well i do lol

Answer 6

Boost your self esteem. You will never look good to yourself if you do not like you. It starts on the inside sweetie.

Answer 7

I love your hair color! Try wearing your hair down and wear some hot make up that will draw attention to you and make you feel confident!

Answer 8

according to your profile you are very happy and you are having a great life looks mean nothing but you are very attractive and must be if you are engaged....

Answer 9

No not at all, you are very pretty.You need to love yourself. I no you do in your own way, but truely love yourself.

Answer 10

hang around with plain looking people.
or
make yourself interesting and you shouldn't have to worry about how you look other than normal upkeep. (shower and clean clothes)