We Met On Match.com and started talking for hours nonstop we have known each other for about a week and practicly cant keep our hands off each other. this is the first time ive dated someone older than me in my life. however we communicate so well and the maturity factor is there.
shes 25 and we are both happy but i want to make her more happy. she is what makes me feel like im living life again.. so ill do anything for her.
any ideas on assuring her that shes the only one for me?
any ideas
2006-07-26 04:51:58 · 30 answers · asked by N8ThatCableGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Send her flowers at work, write her a poem, take her out for a great night on the town, and have her get dressed up really nice for it, go on long drives for no reason, go to an amusement park, tell her how you feel!!
Congrats :-)
2006-07-26 04:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Meagan M 2 · 21⤊ 6⤋
You've only known each other for a week. I'd get to know her better and see how you feel in about a month or two. If you're still feeling like she's the only one, I would step it up and become exclusive. Take it slow. Some relationships start out really wonderful, but change as time goes on. Good luck!
2006-07-26 04:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a week, so lay off on the "only one for me" stuff. :) I think enjoy the relationship and her company for what it is, and see where it goes. Also, don't be so clingy ASAP because it gets tired... fast. And you'll fall harder if things don't work out.
As for the age difference, if you feel the communication is there, I wouldn't worry about it. Do keep in mind, though, that if you are together long term, it might only be a few years before she wants to settle down, and while it's a good age for her... you might only be 24, married, and with a baby. You have to decide if you would be okay with that.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you and your girl!
2006-07-26 05:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by azn girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you've only known eachother for a week, and she's making you "Feel like your living life again" (by the way, you're 20, STFU... you have barely started your life), then you're getting clingy.
Go with the flow, don't try to tell her you love her, because right now it's lust, and take it slow. Otherwise, you'll either scare her off by getting too attached too soon (i.e. telling her you'll do anything for her within 1 month of meeting her), get her attached and realize you moved too fast, or you'll have a really intense fling and it'll end just as fast...
Slow it down, have fun, and for god's sake, use a condom, please.
2006-07-26 04:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blow it by thinking that you can do more. Aren't you enjoying yourself already? Don't fix it if it is not broken. Sounds like you re in love and that is good. The true test will come in time and if she is really for you, you will know it. This could be it, brother, go easy. There is nothing you can do now to secure it for good. Love does not happen that way. It started right for you, so let it flow at its own pace. After all, even though you want her bad to be your one and only remember you also owe it to yourself to see if she too is gonna be good for you, right? And that Age thingie? thrash it ! If chemistry's right she can be 50. Go for it. Have a ball. You have what most of us are looking for. Go Go Go!!!
2006-07-26 05:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Greymatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 25, she is probably ready for committment. And i you all talk very openly to one another, then bringing up your feelings won't be an issue. I know you are prob scared about scaring her away, so be suddle about it. Tell her that she has made you the happiest that you have ever been. That you would do anything for her. Just tell her everything. Honesty, trustworthiness, and communication are the foundations to relationships.
let me know how it works out and if I can maybe assist you even further.
2006-07-26 04:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by dizzys_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow you heart, if she makes you feel great then keep things going. Age isn't anything, my husband if 5 years older than me and it's great. Tell the girl how mush she means to you, but don't over do it and jump in too quickly, that can cause a freak out and break up. Good Luck! I hope she's the one!
2006-07-26 04:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that you have only knows for about a week means that you are taking things a little too fast. There is not sure-fire way to keep her happy except to keep the lines of communication open; you must also have trust. I wish you lots of luck.
2006-07-26 04:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u even seen this woman? please dont go too fast, man. haste makes waste. dont rush. but maybe u 2 do have chemistry. well your a grown man. give it a try. but dont rush into things. does she feel the same way about you when it comes to liking her? u should get to know each other when not on the internet. then u will see if she is "the one" (i dont plan on starting a relationship with someone in that sense until im at least stable enough to enjoy the relationship. im 19.)
2006-07-26 04:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got great chemistry. The only way to assure is is with your actions, so be the best boyfriend you can be, and once you do that she will eventually trust your heart. If for some reason she doesn't that's out of your control. I wish you luck!
2006-07-26 04:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that you have to put your cards on the table- so to speak. If you don't get things out and in the open as to what exactly you are looking for (ie. Miss Right or Miss Right Now), then you may be setting yourself up for some disappointments.
It almost sounds like a sexual thing right now so enjoy it while you can.
2006-07-26 04:57:51 · answer #11 · answered by Renee25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋