2006-07-26 04:45:45 · 49 answers · asked by the dog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No,if someone cheats on you,dump that person and dont go back for more.
2006-07-28 20:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, but you both have some things to talk about if you haven't already. You both need to discuss why this happened and how you both feel about it. Chances are, she also probably feels very bad, she's human. If you choose to take her back remember: DO NOT THROW IT IN HER FACE!! Once it's over you have to move on because you will ruin the relationship otherwise. She was totally in the wrong for cheating and make sure she knows that you are hurt as a result. Be clear and honest about your feelings but do not berate her because then things will only get worse. If you make the decision to take her back you BOTH have to realize that building trust is a process that has it's hills and valleys. Don't rush it or pretend that everything is all better when it truthfully is not. Don't spy or snoop because that will only cheapen the relationship and lessen her respect for you. Now is the time to talk about your future and what you both want out of this relationship.
2006-07-26 04:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by almostmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the severity of the cheating. Was it a one time fling, did she tell you about it afterwards, do u feel you can still trust her, was it an ongoing relationship with another man, how long was your relationship. Is she worth taking back into your life? Is she still in contact with the other man, does she wish to be with you again and you her as well? Do you think you can accept that fact and move on and that she will never cheat again? Once youve answered these yourself then you will have the answer you need.
2006-07-26 04:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you find out about it?
If you found out 18 months ago, and waited till now, obviously you do trust her, so drop the issue.
If you just found out: dis she tell you or did you find out some other way.
If you found out some other way, she may still be cheating son throw her sorry butt to the curb.
If she told you, the question becomes why did she tell you now. Is she really sorry and feels guilty, is she showing off, is she trying to get you to leave?
Only you know, but this should help you decide.
2006-07-26 04:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person has a differnt level of trust . the fact the u r still with her after she cheated on u means that u love her and still trust her a little. some times things happen that cannot be stopped as the sayin goes to err is human to forgive is divine. if she makes u suspious then confront her other wise trust her. maybe she made a mistake once and needs ur trust
2006-07-26 04:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband cheated on me a year ago...we are still together. it has been a very hard year but we are going to make it work. we have two children and if the person is a strong character and you communicate about why it happened and are willing to make changes you can make it.
if you love each other it is worth a try..
and it is not true that once a cheat always a cheat...different strokes for different folks!
good luck :-)
2006-07-26 04:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by *prettyinpink* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...if u have continued the relationship u should see how she's acting around u if u havent the same...i say u can still trust but not in the same way u cant expect her to be your one and only....and keep on ur mind that she cheated on you once so why wouldnt she do it again?
2006-07-26 04:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by SHE'S A DANCING QUEEN ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.
People don't change.
Cheaters are insecure people that are often unable to express their wants to the other person in a relationship, and or make compromises.
To ever trust a cheater like this, that person would have to have grown a great deal in their inner self...
I doubt she has.
OR
another kind of cheater is just nasty,
and fickle.
In either case, you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a known cheater.
stw.
;)
2006-07-26 04:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I think if she came clean, telling you that she had cheated, and asked for you to forgive her, she is probably sincere about it and realizes that she loves you and made a mistake. If you caught her, then no, because chances are it was going on for a while and she had no intentions of confessing.
2006-07-26 04:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by azn girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd have dumped her 18 months ago mate
Once a cheat, always a cheat.... and it will always be on your mind!
2006-07-26 04:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately not - trust ME on that one! If she's going to cheat on you then she's not worth the effort (i learnt the hard way). How can you forgive someone who was probably lying to you for all that time while it was going on when you know they will do it again if they already havent.
2006-07-26 04:48:04 · answer #11 · answered by Carl M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋