I have a problem w/ my classmate...my classmate is a gay. We've been enimies for one year. Now even ive tried to apologize to him he didn't listen to me after all i've done. How can I fix are problem if he didn't cooperate w/ me.....his pride has just much over
2006-07-26 04:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by jopay 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe try writing him a letter to communicate to him. Either that or when you see him anywhere, get in front of him and just tell him everything that you are sorry for. Do what you gotta do.
2006-07-26 04:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by love earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some bridges that can't be rebuilt. Thoughout life, you will find that there are people who hate you no matter what you do, and there are people who you will hate for no reason that you can understand. It's simply the way of the world, some people just don't get along.
You can't fix the problem, you can only go on with your life. Sometimes a good enemy can contribute as much to your life as a good friend.
2006-07-26 05:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by thenetnomad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're right!!! He is PROUD!!! I don't know what you did but apparently it was bad enough for him to shut you out totally. Make this a learning experience. The next time you encounter a gay person....treat them with some dignity and respect. THEY ARE HUMAN!!! Really....if you disect a gay/lesbian you'll see that they really are made of flesh and bone just like you. If this guy opts not to have anything to do with you....just leave him alone. Don't go back to your old ways. Try defending him next time someone insults him or bullies him. He may never look at you as a friend but at least you can say you tried to make amends and use this experience as a learning tool.
2006-07-26 07:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are sorry and mean it. Fix what ever you did that was wrong. If you did anything that was almost unforgivable you will need to make amends as best you can. Help him by donating your time for some project that he is interested in. Such as a Charity that he likes or donate money in his name to a cause that he enjoys/supports. If you hurt his reputation then admit publicly that you where wrong. If you told a secrete or otherwise broke a confidence then you may need to publicly denounce your actions as wrong and publicly apologize. If he is proud he will appreciate that you are being humble on his behalf.
2006-07-26 05:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do? if he doesn't want to talk to you, and you've must have had some kind of falling out to be enemies for over a year, then maybe you need to just leave him alone and let him live his life, and live yours. do you need everyone's approval all the time? you've apologized, and if he doesn't want to listen, then that's on him. you've done what you could. now if you like killed his mom, or stole his boyfriend, then i could see why he might not want to talk to you, but like i stated before, you've done what you could, and now the ball is in his court. let him make the next move, or let him just be.
2006-07-26 05:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an army general "if he didn't COOPERATE with me", you made a bad impression on this guy by judging him before getting to know him and now you feel guilty about it. Bible humpers have that tendancy and thats why people are always giving give them sh*t. Basically, you people are fun to tease. So what if the queer doesn't like you, not everybody has to like you.
2006-07-26 17:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a funny "I'm sorry" card and scribble a note in it that you want to talk and fix things.
If he reads it and chooses not to make the next move, then let it go and keep your distance.
2006-07-26 05:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, does the fact that he is gay have anything to do with this at all?? There are people like this in any group. Just ignore him, he seems like he doesnt care, and doesnt want to fix anything.
2006-07-26 05:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only try so many times to say sorry to a person-- i say try one last time in a letter or face to face and if that does'nt work< just forget about it--- stop wasting your time on someone who does'nt care that your trying to make an effort on saving a friends ship....
2006-07-26 05:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"after all i've done"--what exactly did you do?? ...Seems to me that you can't fix the problem...and the problem isn't him it's totally you...and you admit to it...Perhaps you could learn something from this...Like there are certain things that you should never say to anyone...they can never be taken back...Move on with your life...you've lost a friend.
2006-07-26 04:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋