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2006-07-26 04:39:29 · 20 answers · asked by faith 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

I have tried many many things, and this has gone on for years. I have tried toys, doing it often (but how often can you do it when there is nothing there?), and I have come straight out and asked him what can I do to help you last longer. Don't get me wrong I love my husband for more than just sex, I just want to enjoy that too. I don't get it though, I have been with other partners before we were married and none of them could last very long either. We timed my husband once because he didn't believe me when I said he took only a few minutes, it turned out to be 2 minutes that time. I'm just frustrated...

2006-07-26 05:04:05 · update #1

I have tried many many things, and this has gone on for years. I have tried toys, doing it often (but how often can you do it when there is nothing there?), and I have come straight out and asked him what can I do to help you last longer. Don't get me wrong I love my husband for more than just sex, I just want to enjoy that too. I don't get it though, I have been with other partners before we were married and none of them could last very long either. We timed my husband once because he didn't believe me when I said he took only a few minutes, it turned out to be 2 minutes that time, no kidding. I'm just frustrated...

2006-07-26 05:04:59 · update #2

20 answers

You don't mention if he is finishing too quickly or if he can't maintain an erection, either way, there are several things you can try. C- rings go on the base of the penis and help restrict blood flow. They can help him last longer. There are also desensitizing cremes he can use. There's many good couples toys out there too!

There are also enhancement products that you can use to help make it faster and easier for you to get there. My favorite is Pure Instinct Unisex Enhancement Gel.

Of course, more foreplay and getting you closer to your "goal" before penetration can help, too!

2006-07-26 04:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by WI Passion Parties by Jennifer 3 · 7 1

I looked at some of your other questions (about diet pills) and it seems to me that you want quick fixes, not real solutions.

Have you talked to him about it? Maybe he just doesn't realize ... and even if he does, remember, he's a human being, not a machine. Instead of immediately heading for the Viagra, why not prolong the foreplay or invest in a vibrator or hey, wait a minute - he has fingers, too, not just a penis! Unless there's something physically wrong with him, drugs are not the answer.

2006-07-26 04:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by amivins 3 · 0 0

Try Goat weed with Maca, instead of Viagra, this helps longevity and promotes stamina. Use it 2 times 2 tabs daily. You can find it and any nutritional store. Try having him masturbate about 1/2 before intercourse this should help Premature Ejaculation. I have been using the goat weed for2yrs now and I only use it to last even longer, and it really works. I don't have that problem he does however, I would venture to say that alot of it is only phycological. Try this and see how it works . I may also be that your very attractive and he over excites himself. Hope this helped and good luck.

2006-07-26 05:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by skawp 2 · 0 0

Before you try viagra, I would suggest trying these things first. When he is about to climax you can do a couple of things. One is when your husband is getting close to climax you can gently cup his testicles in your hand and gently pull them down, away from his body. If you do this right it will delay his orgasm and he probably just think you were fondling his "friends".
Another thing is when he is about to climax or getting close, you can stop having sex or performing oral and stimulate other parts of his body like his ears, neck , nipples, inner thighs, navel...you get the hint. Have him do the same to you or even go south for a while. That way his peak will pass and you can return to having sex also if you delay his orgasm a couple of times, when he finally does orgasm it will be amazing for him.
Two other venues are extending foreplay, allowing you to orgasm first and then having penetrative sex. Or how about stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you until you almost reach orgasm, then when he penetrates you, you are more likely to orgasm through vaginal sex.

If all else fails, try viagra that's what it's there for!

2006-07-26 05:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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It explains how to end premature ejaculation for good. It’s basically a blueprint on how to develop natural control over your ejaculation. It actually reprograms your ejaculatory reflex so that you last longer without even trying.

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2014-08-11 08:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Viagra is for men who have a hard time getting and mainting an erection , not for prolonging sex. If this is something new, is he depressed, stressed? How long is he taking ? Do you need a really long time or is he ejaculating prematurly? Try more foreplay, to really answer this question you need to give more info.

2006-07-26 05:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Practice, practice and more practice. Tell him to stop when he is just above to come. Wait a while and then start again. Repeat that as many times as possible. It works for me. I can sometimes get my wife to orgasm as many as 2 times each session. It needs a lot of practice. Both of you have to work very hard to achieve that. be patient. Cooperate and once your get there, you will find it very satisfying.

2006-07-26 05:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0 0

A-Go slower when you are in bed. B-make love more often. The more often he does it, the longer it takes for him to well you know. C- have him drink ac ouple of cocktails, alcohol can delay orgasms. Don't get him drunk, just a slight buzz should buy you the time you need in bed.

2006-07-26 04:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by sragic 1 · 0 0

I WOULD HAVE TO AGREE WITH THE OFFENDER. some times you need to do a lot of foreplay to keep things doing a 69 does wonders but you can find so many different positions that will get you off and him ready to polish you off. what kind of toys have you used if one of them was not a c0ck ring yo need to do some more shopping. what women don't understand some time is that, IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE GUYS FAULT YOU CANT GET OFF............

2006-07-26 06:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by bohica2285 1 · 0 0

Increase the length of foreplay so that you will be ready just as he is and yeh do it more often. If it doesn't work the sit him down and tell him there are techniques us men can use to stop coming so early get him to dosome research.

2006-07-26 04:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by THE OFFENDER 3 · 0 0

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