2006-07-26 04:37:55 · 17 answers · asked by EMy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am we got different religions i am14 years old i am got the most difficult heart to let simeone enter easily and when he enters i cant forget him ever , i am moslem and i liked my religion to the extend i am ready to go to lebnnon and die , unfortunetly my lover is christian and he got a girlfriend ,he is older than me by two years and the comming year is the final at school i say infortuntly that i lied to him about my name that leads to my religion i lied because at that time i was too young to know he would never forgive me there is some truth that i weared hegab and i like it alot and we are in the summer holiday and school is near and he would discover it and love him alot i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 04:57:28 · update #1
the thing i got to say i dont lie ever but when you love you make sometimes mistakes and i am not assamed from my religion understood but i lied bec.at that time i was just 12 years old dont you think its too young to daclare its effects in future
2006-07-26 05:07:26 · update #2
I wouldn't.
2006-07-26 04:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are saying that this guy has a girlfriend?? Or you are his girlfriend? If he has a girlfriend then you need to find another guy!You also need to stop lying to him because the truth is always the best way to go in a relationship. You will lose him if you keep on lying. No one likes to be lied to! You can never be trusted if you keep on lying. Tell him the truth about your religion. If your religion means a lot to you see if he is fine with that. If he isn't then you will know and fine a guy that is fine about your religion. OK.
2006-07-26 12:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not just depends on how he felt when he found out you lied to him. You should have told him the truth to start with, then it would not have been so hard on you. The truth might hurt but always worth it to tell the truth. It makes you a better person
2006-07-26 12:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he's looking for in a woman, for example if he's looking for a Jewish girl and you're not...then he may still love you but doesn't consider you marriage material...unless you convert.
Few people like masks that come off later on, revealing the real truth, so learn from this and be honest up front next time.
2006-07-26 11:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question shouldn't be does he love you after telling him the biggest lie about your religion, it should be will he trust you when he finds out- answer NO! Another question you should ask is will your religion forgive for you for telling this lie, how sinful is this lie in your religion.
2006-07-26 11:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is fine mess caused by LYING, not by Religion (see BLULINR above). Don't lie about anything, especially to someone you love. You don't have to pretend to be something you aren't just to get someone to love you. If they don't love you for YOU, you don't need them. Honesty is always the best policy. Period, end of sentence.
2006-07-26 11:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a trust thing. If you feel the need to lie, then you really don't trust him. The person you need is someone you can be totally open with from the get.
2006-07-26 11:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the first tier of building a true relationship is trust and if that is built on a lie, then it will all eventually come crumbling down.
2006-07-26 11:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Perhaps I love you more 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if iwere him i wouldnt forgive you and if so he never trust you again , i dont find any reason to be ashamed of your religion and lieabout it and remember that your religion is more important than your love anyway lies destroy relationships and love
my advice dont lie again on anyone
2006-07-26 11:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is love darling... if one loves u he will love u no matter what ur religion is but yes he might get completely hurt after knowing that u told a lie to him..... and..... then it might not be your religion but your distrust on his love that can spoil the relationship.... i would suggest u to tell him the truth before its too late....
2006-07-26 11:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Explain WHY you lied to him and express your apologies. Whether or not he can love you again, I can't truely answer.
2006-07-26 11:41:19 · answer #11 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋