I always wanted to know this do men like , girls who dress up and have make up and everything?

Question

well Im a very nice looking girl , make I dont wear any skirts or makeup on , If I wanted to like a man, do I have to start dressing up , or cant I jsut be my self really, I would prefer to be myself as I myself still look nice , but I see women wear dresses , and im thinking now maybe I should do that and may be someone might like me , what should I do, its really getting on my nerves , I think already am I really nice or should I go and wear a dress, which is freaking me out, so do men like women more with a dress on , I mean do I have to do this just to get a guy , and even if I did do that I still would want to be me , so what should I do

Answer 1

Plain is cool. Dressing up, sometimes is fine...The most important thing is to be who you are.

Answer 2

I am sure u could get a man no bother going on what u said. I often find girl wear 2 much make up and stuff and it doesnt look good. If u r nice looking naturaly i think maybe just a bit lipstick will do. Skirts can look tarty of they r short and some dresses can cling to lumpy bits. A decent cut pair of jeans will do most of the time i think.

Answer 3

Women also have options these days to dress up and look good while still wearing pants.
If wearing a dress isnt who you are then it would be a false pretense to do it meet a guy. Especially since you're so averse to wearing one.
From my perspective, I like a woman who likes to dress up and look good when the situation is appropriate. If that means a dress, make-up, heels for a date or for work, then thats great.
I wouldn't be very happy with a woman who only dressed up to meet me, then after a while went back to looking average, and never dressed up.
What you should do is work at looking good, without trying to hard. Most people never master this and are either over dressed or look like slobs.

To go beyond answerring your immediate question, is that if you're looking for a relationship, you need to be yourself. Too many people parade around as something they're not until they get into a relationship and then go back to their original ways.

Answer 4

You should always be yourself...don't wear uncomfortable clothes and loads of make up if you don't want to and it's not something you usually do. That's just hiding behind a mask, and if this person really likes you, he'll accept you for who you are. Most guys know (I hope, anyway!) that women have blemishes on their skin, we fart, we burp, we have morning breath, etc. That's not to say you should go around looking, acting and dressing like a slob...just make sure you're clean and presentable. Any man who dated you when you were all dressed up and made up, then leaves you when he sees the "real" you isn't really a man...he's a self-centered jerk who cares more about appearance than being in love. :)

Answer 5

Hi 2312: Men are attracted to what they feel comfort with. Some people like the smell of urine . .

Other men like the smell of perfume


If a guy is interested in you, whether you appear seductive or not
there are many guys who do not care what you look like, but do you want intimacy. Then there are the mature men who appreciate a woman for a certain classiness, a way of being confidant, without throwing them a bone so to speak.

Well, I hope this helps. Read the book, men are from Mars, women are from Venus. That will answer many questions you have.

Answer 6

If men want a painted dolly they can go to the toy shop and get one can't they, I think you are either meeting the wrong type of men or worrying too much about how they see you, if they like you as a person what the hell does it matter what clothes or make up you wear, just be yourself and forget what your reading or seeing on the daft programmes, wear what you feel comfortable in, its you hes asking out not the damn dress.

Answer 7

First of all, I am celibate, so that may colour my opinion. Make-up originated to simulate romantic arousal. So it creates a lie. Subliminal messages are received and mis-interpreted by males creating confusion which may be expressed by mistaking the motivations of the woman in question. Is she being friendly, or genuinely interested? The reverse may also happen. A man who has learned to switch off his subliminal reaction, may also be switched off when a woman genuinely shows romantic interest.

I prefer to see women looking natural. It is a cliche that true beauty starts from within, but it is true none the less. A person, male or female, totally at ease with their appearance, self assured and brimming with confidence radiates an attractiveness that requires no additives.

So, my advice is to express yourself in your appearance. Don't change to meet someone else's standards. Be you. After all, that's who you want your prospective man to fall in love with.

Answer 8

The natural look wins hands down.

You still have to dress in a way that a guy appreciates to get noticed (I don't mean slutty)

A nice fitted pair of jeans and a tee shirt will do the trick as it's best to feel and look comfortable.

Answer 9

I'm not a man, but i dont think men look at what your wearing in too much detail ( unless it's very revealing). In my experience men go for fun, pretty and interesting girls- you could be wearing a bin liner and they probably wouldn't care- well, not the guys i know anyway

Answer 10

No. Not every man does, my girlfriend allways looks gorgous and doesn't wear any make-up at all. Just be your-self.

She looks fantastic first thing in the morning. Those sleepy eyes, the ruffled hair, so sexy.....

if she's not wearin a dress, then wohoooo!!!
i love naked chicks
mmmm i think i'm getting horny

ya gonna have to excuse me a mo while i go do my thing....

Answer 11

You don't have to wear make up or a dress to get a guy. However, men generally are more attracted to women that take pride in their appearance. Just ask yourself what you like, do you like a guy that takes pride in his appearance? Or a guy that could care less about what he looks like?