bi or bi-curious what would you do? Would you let her pursue her curisousities? Why or why not?
2006-07-26 04:25:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, what if she did not want you involved? You can't watch or be there but you can know that she is doing it. 3somes are out of the question....
2006-07-26 04:29:27 · update #1
Sure, why not? For whatever reason, I don't find that the thought of my wife in the arms of another woman threatens my ego in the least. It does run counter to the vows of marriage we took (forsaking all others), but I guess I can live with that. It would only become a problem if the other woman creates a love triangle and loyalties become divided.
2006-07-26 04:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a ridiculous question. I'd have no problem with my wife wanting other women...while I was watching and participating.
But, why would I want my wife to be out being sexual with someone else (guy or girl) without my involvement? Then its an affair and definitely not something I'd be into.
2006-07-26 10:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by The Answer Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in joining in? If ou let youre partner wander then you need to make sure the relationship is rock solid. If you do let her and one night she says i'm going to sleep with another woman but you arent included How would it make you feel, would you be jealous or suspicious, it could tear the relationship apart, would she want you to be there and to join in or is t purely for her own gratification. You just need to sit down and dicuss all the angles. As a man the normal reaction is **** yes go for it, but if you really care just be cautious
2006-07-26 04:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by THE OFFENDER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although that is a huge fantasy for guys to have a threesome, I committed myself to her and her only, and I just couldn't let another person into our bedroom. If she wanted to pursue her curiosities about other women, then what would stop her from being curious about other men?
2006-07-26 04:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What guy is gonna say that he wouldn't like to have a threesome! But there are some that wouldn't but all the ones I know is going to say, " HELL YA" Because that gives them excitement and it might improve the sex life! But You have to consider how the other person feels and make sure that everyone is ok with a desicion like that. Be Careful but have FUN
2006-07-26 04:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by pullersgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not bother me that my girlfriend is doing it so I don't think it would be a big deal if my wife did it. I do have the added bonus of being involved with her and another females in three-ways too.
2006-07-26 04:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by pablo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why she hadn't discussed this with me BEFORE we got married (assuming you're talking about a traditionally monogamous marriage, here). Did she not have a clue about this beforehand? If so, why did she agree to a monogamous relationship she couldn't be happy with?
And as far as "not watching" goes, it sounds to me as if she's asking for permission to cheat. Period. If that's what she needs, she should end this marriage and figure herself out before she hurts someone else.
2006-07-26 04:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by amivins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that she wants then yes. She needs to explore and satisfy her curiosities, she is her own person after all. As long as she is honest about it, with me and herself.
I don't recall the question involving a threesome....
2006-07-26 04:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by ronrlogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no if with my wife. How I know she love the way I make love to her.
There Whew that sure is a hard answer to your question! Good 2 points for me.
2006-07-26 05:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife told me she was and I wholeheartedly agreed to let her pursue her curiousities as there is nothing hotter than watching your wife with another woman.
2006-07-26 05:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by SteveD57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋