2006-07-26 04:05:51 · 24 answers · asked by Tracy K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the "how" is up to you. just be honest, and if you want to end it don't wait. waiting will only hurt him more.
don't listen to these other crazy people on here, just because these guys are rare doesn't mean you've got to grab the first one you get to. i'm sure you have your reasons for wanting to end it. however, if you can, try to find another guy who wants more than sex for your next one, because they make better boyfriends :P
2006-07-26 04:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?
Do you love him enough?
Do you love him more than he loves you?
Apparantly, he's not using you.
He loves you, treasures you, and sees a future with you.
If you love him, you won't bear to hurt him at all.
Let alone break up with him... unless you're not prepared to go so far with him or any guy for that matter.
The only reason you would break up with him yet love him is when you need to let him go... in a situation where he found a new love & he's happier with her... Other than that, hell no are you breaking up with him.
If you think the future is too far ahead... tell him nicely you like to take it slow... You're not ready for the big step... be it 2 years, 5 years down the road... You get the picture? He'll understand...
2006-07-26 04:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy ought to continually get up for his female. really verify with him about it and fairly voice the way you experience. also, you want to face up for your self too, do not only use your boyfriend as a safeguard. If he would not imagine it is an difficulty or would not fairly look after it, then he isn't any longer properly really worth the artwork or time. it might want to, certainly, be an risky and extremely bumpy courting is you men are not on a similar web page with morals and what no longer. sturdy success, and that i'm hoping you fairly open his eyes. :)
2016-11-26 00:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think that you have to be kidding. If not, you have some serious issues dealing with relationships. Why do you want men not to respect you? Are you just using them to make yourself feel good? Back in the day, you would have been one of those girls with a reputation, and no guy that is husband material would touch you with a ten foot pole. Obviously today, standards are lowered and you have lowered yourself, too.
2006-07-26 04:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply tell him your not ready for a serious relationship. Some guys out there are afraid of being alone n it doesnt matter who they end up with as long as there with someone. But be careful guys will tell ya what ya want to hear, he may be telling you he don't wanna get in your pants n be messin with your head? Just be honest n real with him, otherwise ya will be stuck n that will suck! Good luck!
2006-07-26 04:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by *Cupcake* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants more from you then sex... then why would you want to leave him!! Have you lost it? Do you know how rare that is? I would seriously reconcider leaving this guy... unless you only care about a guy who is into you for sex and sex alone... then you are very imature and superficial and you would be doing this guy a favor and he is better off without you.....
2006-07-26 04:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you f*ckin kidding me .. you are breaking up with a guy who isnt after just sex???? you got some mental issues for sure.. Obviously you dont deserve a good guy like him
2006-07-26 04:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation that you are in now. But i broke things off with the jerk. You didn't say if you love the boy. If you want to break things off with the guy you should tell him.
2006-07-26 04:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Choclate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he is after your money?Its rare to get such person who goes beyond sex and and lets you know about his feelings. To break up or not is your personal issue but give it a second thought.
2006-07-26 04:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to do that good guys are really really really hard to find, but if its not working for u and u have no feelings for him just tell him, don't do the whole its not u its me, just say its not working out and i don't share the same feelings sorry im sure if he's mature he will understand good luck and make sure u think it through before u do it
2006-07-26 04:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋