my wife wants me to give divorce to her ?

Question

my wife want to divide me from my parents . and am not going to
be seprate from my parents . she went to her house(thier father & mother house)and didnt come till 6 months when i went to call her she said that she wants divorce

Answer 1

If you are a Christian man you may want to remember that it says that you should part from your parents and cleave to your wife. After getting married the most important relationship you have should be with your wife - not your mommy and daddy.
That doesn't mean you shouldn't be in contact with your parents, but she should come first.
AND are you serious? It took you 6 MONTHS to go after her when she went to her parents?!! If it had taken you 6 days I'd be PO'd. When a woman runs home to her mother, you better follow her, appologize for being such a Momma's boy, and promise her that you will start acting like a MAN. Sheesh!
If you don't want to give her a divorce, show her that you are willing to fight for her. If you aren't willing, then she's probably right to get out of this sham of a marriage before you have children together.

Answer 2

You need to realize that when you get married, you have to leave your parents. Doesn't mean to you ignore your parents, but you are starting a new life with a woman and she is supposed to come first one you said "I do!" Just like your parents are there for eachother now, you are supposed to be there for your wife. What would you think if your mother left your father because he wouldn't leave his parents. I don't think its dividing you from your parents she wants. You seem to be too immature to handle a marriage at this time.

Answer 3

First of all when you marry, your wife is before your parents. Your wife feelings come first. I wish you moma's boys stop getting married. If you don't want anyone to divide you from your parents, leave women alone and that way you can be with your moma and daddy forever. Yeah sounds like she has every right to divorce you. Momas boys should NEVER marry.

Answer 4

Was this an arranged Indian marriage?
If you are unwilling to leave your parents you should not have a wife. Give her the divorce and go live at home as a child.

Answer 5

Well when you get married your wife does come befor your parrents. But if she went away for 6 months, she is having an affiar. OK, Let her go and take every thing.

Answer 6

You don't have to oblige her request. Parents are the one who brought you up and take care of you, if you are going to leave them, what will happen to them? You got to spare a thought for their feelings. I will suggest you to have a good talk with your wife. If it can't work out, you will have to decide as we are only able to suggest but not to decide any thing for you. Hope things will turn out good for you. Good Luck!

Answer 7

I think that if you wont live separately with her you are not providing the proper family atmosphere for a healthy relationship. If you want to save marriage rethink your positions and compromise with her.

Good Luck to You and God Bless!!

Answer 8

SOunds to me like you are both very attached to your parents, you need to both grow up and get away from your parents. Give her the divorce, she can get it anyhow, just making it miserable for both of you!

Answer 9

OK - maybe she is divorcing you because you don't make sense?

But the bottom line, if she doesn't want to be married to you, then give her the divorce. It's no fun to be married to someone that doesn't love you.

Answer 10

seek marriage counseling. there must be some problems. Be willing to accept responsibility for your actions.