2006-07-26 03:45:52 · 17 answers · asked by shubhankar g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should learn...that not all people are good friends.You must choose your friend.But sometime what you see is just not reality.My best of best friend just betrayed me.
2006-07-26 03:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiegal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to take it personal. i have been betrayed in every way possible. from false rumors to cheating. although you want to trust that everyone has your best interest at heart, some are around you just to get info that the average person couldn't get because you would not let them in. have you ever heard that those around you hurt you more than anyone else. it is true because you only trust a select few in life. i am sorry that whatever happened did. try not looking for a good friend because it takes time and develops gradual and naturally besides , everyone is in your life for a reason remember this and the betrayal does not hurt as much. i do not have friends to this day for the same reason.
2006-07-26 10:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a friend betray you after 'a few days'. What do you count as betrayal.
You get a good friend by meeting people, finding those you have something in common with, and then just spending time with them. Sounds like you are just oversensitive to things. Relax.
2006-07-26 10:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking so hard. Make friends and go slowly with the friendship. Don't expect people to make a lifetime commitment to you within the first few days of meeting them. Take your time and be patient and you will meet some good friends.
The first step to making a good friend, is being a good friend. Encourage your friends, and don't judge them. You may not like everything they do, but if you are a good friend, you will accept them no matter what.
Listen to your friends without giving advice unless asked for it. Don't just use your friends to cry to, be happy and fun to be with.
Don't just look at their faults, look for their good qualities and you will find good friends.
2006-07-26 10:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "get" a good friend. You make a friend and the relationship builds into a strong one over time.
2006-07-26 10:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to be a good friend, be a positive , kind person and choose the same to be around~
2006-07-26 10:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by bubu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a good friend, by BEING a good friend.
Unfortunately that does not always work, but it is the only way you'll have a chance...
2006-07-26 10:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you mean your b/f betrays you every time you get a new friend, didn't understand your question
2006-07-26 10:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think wot u call betrayal is not actually betrayal. maybe sumtime they annoy u....u take it as if they have betrayed u. so be positive. among frends things like arguement etc. happens. so, be a good frend urself first.
2006-07-26 11:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let them walk over you . you have to put your foot down sometimes. sounds like you just have a good heart too good.
2006-07-26 10:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋