this girl my boyfriend use to date back in school calls him. he tells me that she is trying to get back with him but she says they are friends and she is going to continue to be friends with. he told me that he would have no dealing with this girl. i asked hime have he been talking to her and he looked me in my face and lied! i told him the # is on the phone and he talked to her for 20 mins.his excuse i called her to see how she got my new #? it don't take 20mins to say that.he goes see his best friend and i'm with him some times but its that girl 's house. hes been going over to her house this whole time i don't know what happens behind that door. he says she never there when he goes over there. he lied to me about not dealing with her . what should i do. i told him i can't trust him anymore its not the first time she has popped up this is the 3rd time. i know he won't cheat on me but in the past it were things i seen and he was unable to explain how it got there
2006-07-26 03:32:43 · 30 answers · asked by Diamond22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone thinks that their boyfriend won't cheat on them. I thought that and then he did and we were together for three years. I think sometimes people just get tired of each other and look for what they need some place else. Next time he says he is going over this friends house tell him that you want to go with him. This way if that girl is there she sees you with him and he can't hand out with her. If your boyfriend is lying to you about something as simple as a phone call he is most likely lying ot you about something else, something he is trying to cover up. If you can't trust him it's not worth having a relationship with him. Good luck.
2006-07-26 03:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl wake up you need to think better of yourself . leave him alone. here is a good rule for you to remember... if a person lies to you about something little then just imagine when things get serious. leave him now and save yourself the heart ache. and don't fall for the i am so sorry it will never happen again... or i love you why would i do that to you. girl he is a man and what makes it worse he is a young immature man so move on your only in high school and once you leave him alone if he says i am sorry then OK say i accept you apology and we have nothing further to discuss and hang up the phone or walk away and don't let him see you cry...and move on with your life.
2006-07-26 10:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by sweets_22193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is how every woman should see if her man is cheaing on her. Take a pair of woman underwere 1 size smaller than yours, and stuff them down in between the mattress. Then go and get them when he is in the bedroom and ask him who's they are. If he sys they are yours. Slap him and walk out. Then take a pad, write downall of the good things he has done for you, then write down all of the bad things he has done to you. I f the Good side is more than the bad side Keep him. If the bad is more than the good, let him go. Or you can hire a Privet Investigator.
2006-07-26 10:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but a lie is only the tip of the iceberg. He clearly isn't a smart man to have someone like you. Take your time to build the courage but make sure you toss him away before he does you. It will only feel worse if he does it.
He may try to sway you though... don't let him. Into the garbage he goes.
2006-07-26 10:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by ssury u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie get off the love triangle or you will be getting hurt all the time as he is playing you as a fool and if you can't trust your relationship will suffer a lot as you will get sick and tied of his lying and in the end of it you will hate so much. You need to get into your heart and follow what it tells you what to do you will know in the end what is your answer.
2006-07-26 10:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by debbie_dixon19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell u but it sounds like he is cheating on u and hes lieing about it thats not good i would get out of that relationship becuz u wont be able to trust him and he lied and honesty is the key in a relationship and he obviously lied and hes goin to keep lieing so plz get out of that relationship before u get hurt anymore
2006-07-26 10:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never 'know' someone won't cheat on you. Ask to go with him next time he goes to the house where she lives and see what he says.
2006-07-26 10:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be skeptical. You may want to try and catch him if you can. Tell him you will be at his house at a certain time but show up earlier. Throw him off guard. If he can look at you with a staight face and lie about talking to her what else could he be lying about?
2006-07-26 10:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by mistymeadoww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to check his phone and he lies then you both clearly have a trust problem. Drop him, relationships without trust aren't worth the time and effort.
2006-07-26 10:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is cheating on you....she is trying to get back with him and he is allowing her to much opportunity to prove how much she wants him back...the fact he talks with her and goes to her house tells me she is saying and doing something that keeps him in contact with her..its totally disrespectful toward you...have him stop it or walk away from this situation.
2006-07-26 10:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋