Its been almost a year and a half when we got married.....but since more than 6 months he doesn't even look at nor even asks me for a hug or so....I feel very depressed....I miss all that love that he use to give me....Once I asked him for a hug and he didn’t show any interest ….I said that you never ask me for a hug anymore and when I do you are not interested and I had tears in my eyes….. He said that you use to look better before!!!!!………. but looks can't stay with you all life long there are plenty of other things which I do for him, does not have any value???.... One day when he will also start looking different does that means that I should stop showing my love to him?? Does in every relationship love & romance end like that???? I can't live like that.....I am a very romantic person and when I am use to his love and pamper , why is he doing this? I think if this will continue like that....I would not be able to stay in this relationship any longer!!!!! I love him a lot!!Help
2006-07-26 03:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay, when you're dating and first married you have this romantic thing going on. How do you bring that back? Well, in my opinion, the whole romance thing is about being hyper-aware of the differences between you and him as male and female. So play up those differences. Dress feminine. Put on make-up. Work on making him feel like your hero. Read "Fascinating Womanhood". There's some great ideas in there. Or "The Surrendered Wife". If you're Christians, read "Me? Obey Him?" or "The Politically Incorrect Wife". At the least read "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars" to give you some understand of his needs vs. her needs. I hope things work out for you. If you're interested in extreme "romance", check out the domestic discipline sites--there are a few in my blogroll if you want to look at my 360 site. Saved my marriage years ago.
2006-07-26 04:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh he said "you use to look better before???!!" My goodness he didn't know what Marriage about? worst to better, sick to health, no matter what happens you look like should always love that person.
I love my wife everyday and I hug her and Telling her I love her, even my kids too. Never tell her you not the same before. and No way, she is the same person inside of her. No difference, If she did I would asked her right away what happen.
My gosh he has no respect you at all, Cold heart, no caring, nothing. Just becasue you have not been same looks before. whoa that mean and disrespect you.
You can find other guy that would want to be with you no matter what outside you look like, but your personality and inside still the same. You haven't change anything about love, caring, etc. but he only see the look. So find someone else, I know there a man out there want to do the same thing you want to feel and be with for long time. You can't love that person alot if he don't have no nothing for you... that not love at all.... I am sorry to be honest with you. Need to end it or not asking any of our answers.
2006-07-26 05:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(((((Jeff)))) I knew that someone jointly with your ability to look after others had to be a romantic at heart. Too undesirable that she does no longer see this. i'd choose E and right here's why... i imagine decrease back to honestly one of my perfect pal's wedding ceremony. She changed into marrying a man or woman that each and every person, which include her father despised. in reality, she changed into marrying white trash (he turned right into a complete jerk). Her father loved each and every person - almost. Her dad performed the ceremony and that i keep in mind his words to the groom in the course of the fee to the bride and groom... "and woe to him who causes a frown to pass her forehead" with an fantastically pointed seem. I reported the groom honestly draw back (in spite of each and every thing i changed into between the bridesmaids, so I were given to work out issues up close and own). She stayed in that marriage for 10 depressing years. Her moms and dads continually enable her comprehend they loved her and were there for her. ultimately she left him and moved decrease back homestead with her moms and dads even as she were given her existence decrease back on the right song. My element, Jeff, is this. take care of the severe street. If he seems to be a outstanding guy, you have not performed some thing you'd be apologetic about later. however, if issues do not workout, then you really under no circumstances comprehend, she might want to keep in mind you... Take care. Hugs from a romantic matchmaker
2016-11-26 00:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by moline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if he is not huging you because of he way you look, thaen let him go. Befor you do let him go remind him that he will not find another wman ot there that will do the things that you do. They may look better, but he will not get the type of love and respect that you give him. Then kick him out and find another man that will give you a hug and a kiss whenever you need it. Kick him out.
2006-07-26 04:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing should have changed so quick. I think perhaps you have changed your attitude as well. You two need help probably from an outside source such as pastor or marriage counselor. This is so you can get an objective view not to blame anyone.
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-07-26 04:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was the same way when we was dating , but after we got married he just stop wanted to hold me at night and kissing me that much or tell me that he love me , but i know that he loves me , so it really don't bother me that much for he not to hold me or tell me that he loves me because he show me , he have brought me two news cars in just this year , and give me anything i want , why the other guys that i was with never done anything for me but only sex . so i believe that your husband still love u , things is just changing now
2006-07-26 03:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)make urself more attractive2)wear his fav perfume3} cook hi fav meal last but not least when he leaves for work walk him to the doo kiss him good-bye and meet him at the door with a kiss when he returns home
2006-07-26 03:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by naked_edge69b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How different can you possibly look in 6 MONTHS???? He sounds like an a$$...sorry, but you asked.
2006-07-26 03:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...when your significant other starts talking about how you used to look,I think I would be asking the obvious question
2006-07-26 03:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋