im a virgo n my bf is an aquarius. is it going to work?

Question

im totally in love with him && the sign crap doesnt really matter just curious wht ppl got to say about it, cuz a friend of mine is alll into tht horoscpe stuff and tells me tht virgos n aquarius ppl dont wrk && even tho i dont really care i ask her like how and why wouldnt they work and she just doesnt have a reason for me.. so yea just wanting to knw out of curiousity.

Answer 1

Your astroglogical sign has nothing to do with it.

Your compatibility does. If you rely on something like each others horoscope to detirmine if you should be together, then chances are likely you don't belong together.

Otherwise, you'd be prone to self fulfilling prophocies by letting your psyche undermind your relationship.........meaning if you guys are compatible and you let a negative horoscope match break you up...if you enjoy each other, than that's what counts.

Answer 2

Aquarians and Virgos make great friends and understand each other well- this match up is NOT as hopeless as some say! I knew a married Aquarian/Virgo couple with no problems!

Virgo + Aquarius

Earth + Air = Dust

If ever a sign were going to challenge and baffle the observant Virgo, Aquarius would certainly be it. There is an unusually strange compatibility between you and this may not be immediately recognisable. Your first meetings may come about through some work or professional interaction in which Aquarius is called upon to assist you. You probably see much of yourself in the humanitarian and socially conscious Aquarian, but in a different way. The Aquarian is not as preoccupied with the nitty-gritty of things as you are, but is still very concerned with the idea of contributing to the community and the world as a whole. These noble ideas will attract your Virgo sensibilities and are a good basis for a relationship.

Aquarius needs to be mindful of tidiness and order, which is high on your list of priorities. They must accept that an orderly existence is crucial for you but they may be less concerned about these matters. Between the two of you there could be some idealistic tie-in in which you both serve each other by bringing your distinctly different skill sets together, amalgamating them for some greater cause. Just don’t superimpose any fussiness on the aloof Aquarian.

You may see in Aquarius an ideal that doesn’t fit easily into your intellectual ‘square’. This also applies to sex and intimacy. You must learn to be freer and more open in exploring what Aquarius has on offer. The best match would be with an Aquarian born between 31 January and 8 February, as they possess several similar intellectual traits to you. Aquarians born between 9 and 19 February are also well suited as partners and provide you with abundant sexual enjoyment. Those born between 21 and 30 January are probably the hardest lot for you to come to terms with. They may be better suited as work colleagues rather than as long-term romantic mates.

Answer 3

This can be a very challenging and exciting encounter with both the element of surprise, and friendship turning sexual fast. Virgo and Aquarius are an interesting combination of passion, friendship and sexuality. Social activities will keep the relationship stimulating and highly erotic. Virgo is a sign that will keep Aquarius grounded. Both desire sex, friendship and share creative abilities. Over time, one of you may fall in love quickly and suddenly. Keep it light Virgo, and see what develops. Aquarius needs to give Virgo credit for effort and laughter. Virgo is not as shy as Aquarius would like to believe. When Aquarius becomes silent, Virgo will feel the need to escape. For this to work: plan trips and travel together. Build a connection based on substance and you could create memories of a lifetime together.

Compatibility rating: 75%

Answer 4

Any sign can be with any other sign! It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 5

i don't love astrology all that a lot. i don't think in it, and that i imagine it is bollocks for the most section. i'm a virgo besides and that i myself have a tendency to love Taurus's. i can see how the aquarius has particular attributes that one might want to discover beautiful however. they're fairly outstanding, no longer quite demanding, and their shy outdoors makes them actual approachable. they're my own fashionable, coming in on the point of leos.

Answer 6

Signs have nothing to do if a relationship is going to work or not. It will always depend on how both of you deal with it. Signs are just guides, it is not your life.

Answer 7

Although you approach problems and ideas from different perspectives, you have a good mental rapport. Virgo focuses on specific details, and prefers to specialise in a certain area, while Aquarius takes a wider, more global view and looks for interrelationships in a large system, without as much focus on any particular area of specialisation. Virgo is more concerned with effective and precise application of plans, and helps Aquarius to practically apply ideas. You make a good team in social or intellectual pursuits. Your relationship may be a bit cool or formal, however, and hopefully there are other astrological factors (as described elsewhere in this report) to provide warmth, affection and romantic or sexual attraction.

A major difference in your temperaments is that Aquarius, deep down, is rebellious toward authority and rather indifferent to convention and tradition. Aquarius has a taste for excitement and needs to experiment and shake things up once in a while. Virgo is more careful, and feels much more comfortable and safe following a secure, tried-and-true path. Virgo loves order, while Aquarius disrupts order so that something new can happen.

Also, Virgo is more introspective and serious about self-improvement than Aquarius, who is interested in social improvement, but is often out of touch with their own feelings and inner life.

Lively exchanges of ideas are common between the two of you. Fortunately, you understand each other well, but unfortunately you sometimes have opposite opinions and perspectives on an issue. Despite your differences, you work together very well in practical matters, planning, organising, developing or communicating ideas, and your differing view points are not likely to be a serious problem.

As a couple, you will have many unusual experiences, and a lot of friends who are unique, interesting, creative, and quite different from one another. You could gather a "family" around you that is quite unlike a traditional or "normal" family, including adopted relatives and close friends. A certain openness, acceptance of deviance from the norm, and willingness to learn from unexpected sources will be essential in this relationship. Being able to flow with change and live in the present moment will be necessary too, as there is a certain, ongoing movement in your relationship that precludes settling down to any established routine for very long.

There is a magnetic, rather intense attraction between you, and it is very likely that you will go through many intense challenges and emotionally powerful experiences together, even if your relationship is not a permanent one.

This is a "hot" relationship. Sexual and physical attraction is strong, tending to lead to hot pursuit of each other. Subtlety is lacking and one, or both, of you may feel your approach to sexuality is too aggressive or insensitive. You also enjoy competing with each other and working hard together. Competitive sports, games, and outdoor activities are good outlets. You must strive to avoid conflict because the aggressive quality of your relationship can easily flare into anger and hostility.

Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Aquarius, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Virgo's deeply ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting of shortcomings in your mate, and willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.

Aquarius's philosophical, political, and religious beliefs will undergo some major changes as a result of this relationship, particularly if the relationship is a long-term, serious one. In trying to adapt to Virgo's views, Aquarius discovers the value in new perspectives and ideas that previously were not considered.

Virgo often limits, burdens, or frustrates Aquarius without intending to or realising it. There is a conflict here between Virgo's needs for security, stability, and order versus Aquarius's desire for freedom, mobility, and expansiveness. How much, and in what ways, you spend money is probably a particularly thorny issue for you. Virgo is more careful and restrictive or disapproving of Aquarius's more relaxed, extravagant, or liberal approach.

Also, Virgo often seeks to control or dominate Aquarius, and Aquarius may even take a subordinate role in the relationship for a time, accepting Virgo's "discipline". Over time, however, Aquarius may find Virgo's subtle (or not so subtle!) criticism or constraints to be devitalising and draining. And Aquarius, on the other hand, can make Virgo feel like a perpetual wet blanket or miser.

Working together or going into business as equal partners is unlikely to work out well for you. It's best if you can respect one another's differing approaches and not seek to impose your own values or styles on one another.

Answer 8

any relationship can work u might have to work at it a bit more but if you really like someone it will be worth it in the long run, and the work u put in shows how much u want things to work

Answer 9

if you guys have a good relationship together, including trust, and love.

your signs dont have anything to do with how much you can love each other.

Answer 10

i doubt it. an aquarius is a free spirit. virgo's are too meticulous.