He calls me and tells me to come over and wants our relationship to be like it is when they are not there. I feel aqward about having sex with this man with his grown kids awake in the other room. We usually hang out, eat together, and watch TV. Should I just pretend they are not there and hope they will be uncomfortable enough to take the hint? My boyfriend doesn't act like he cares what they think. He works at nite and I work in the daytime, so our time is limited to 1 day a week usually Mondays
2006-07-26 03:20:05 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, sit down and discuss it with him. The only way he is going to know it's an issue for you is if you tell him so. Perhaps you can come up with some ideas. Like, he could as his kids to make themselves scarce (go to a friends, or whatever) on mondays, in a nice "wink wink", way. Most adult kids will respond favorably, esp if he does the same for them from time to time.
Good luck!
2006-07-29 15:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
HI, notsohappydawg!
Tell him how you feel and when he calls you tell him to come to your place.
Or let the devil in you come out and scream and moan loud when you make love and let him and his kids be embarrassed.
There is another solution: another boyfriend.
2006-07-26 03:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋